About me

I've been in the kink scene for four years: going to parties, attending classes, and doing lots of great scenes.

My style of domination is affectionate, praising, and often teasing, but never humiliating or degrading. High protocol and discipline bores me. Pain isn't off the table—I've got plenty of floggers, paddles, and crops—but I find myself more drawn towards overwhelming subs with pleasure. I try to play the body like an instrument. I also enjoy receiving service: whether that's sexual, kinky, or domestic. I've been with a lot of people (men) who see me as just a "kink dispenser", so I'm seeking a sub who is devoted and has more to offer than just the desire to be topped.

My interests include: biting, orgasm control/denial, bondage, sensation play, wax, pegging. I'm currently learning rope and really enjoying it! It'll be a while before I can do any fancy ties, though. I'm also exploring hypnosis.

I'm nonmonogamous and bisexual and have dabbled in many different relationship styles. Currently I have a few FWBs and a sub I sometimes do scenes with. I ended a long-term relationship several months ago and have reached a point where I feel that urge to get back into the dating scene; casual just isn't scratching the itch anymore. If you feel the same way, reach out!

In my vanilla life, I love film, knitting, and books (I'm currently reading one from every country!). I'm constantly picking up new hobbies, from linoleum carving to jewelry making to bookbinding. I love the smell of rosemary, the sound of rain, and celebrating people's birthdays. I hate crowds, carbonation, and the heat. No matter how broke I am, I always have a vase of fresh flowers in my apartment. Put the number 7 in the subject line of your message to me so I know you've read this far.

About you

• Between the ages of 22 - 29
• Bi/pansexual (if you're a man)
• Based in the New York metro area; not seeking an online dynamic
• Have experience with kink IRL
• Open, eager to please, and know your own limits and desires
• Seeking more than just kink; ideally you'd like a romantic relationship where you could explore D/s together