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27 [M4F] #Dorset, England - Looking for something Long Term. Chats to Friends to Dynamic to LTR and beyond
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ANotSoRegularBen is a male age 27 looking for a female in dorset
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Hope your having a lovely week. So I’m trying to find a genuine Long Term Relationship (LTR). I’m the s in D/s so maybe the possibly building a Female Led Relationship (FLR) in the future would be perfect. But as of right now I’m looking for someone to have a true emotional connection, have cute fun dates and share hobbies / common interests with.

About me: - Me (for mutual attraction purposes as if you don’t think I’m hot/attraction how you going to make me blush haha): https://imgur.com/a/q9aQ1mV

  • I’m 27 yr old
  • I live in Dorset, UK (can drive)
  • My height is 5’10
  • I weigh 88kg and look athletic to slim
  • I play football for fun
  • Have a Degree and Masters in Youth Sport Coaching and Development
  • I love long walks in the countryside
  • My hobbies are reading and gaming
  • Interest in with historical old places
  • Have a bland taste in clothes/fashion
  • Weird sense of humour (There's Something About Mary to It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia type omg lol)
  • Romantic at heart with hugs, kisses and cute stuff cures all :) -Attention and cuddle slut (seriously, I need lots)
  • I’m warm, kind, caring and supportive (emotionally and generally)
  • I can be quite introverted and more of a homebody. So what’s your favourite movie? We can always stay in and cuddle

Potential Dealbreaker about me: (these are more intimate details about me that I rather you know now and you decide if you’d accept these about me):

  • Allergic to most animal hair (I love animals), but most animals and pets I’m allergic too, sorry.
  • Live at home with parents atm

My Ideal Partner: (this isn’t a checklist I’m ticking off! I’m more about finding right personality and person. This is to help you know what I’m looking for)

  • Age between 22 and 32 (not dealbreaker)
  • Lives in UK or can be local enough to see each other soon (prefer Southwest, England)
  • Willing to meet if things go well
  • Single and monogamous, looking for serious long term relationship
  • I don’t have height/weight or appearance preference
  • I’m happy with both Experienced and Not Experienced (both sfw and nsfw related)
  • Good at communicating and invest in daily conversation putting in time
  • Sense of humour (having someone to have fun and laugh with)
  • Someone honest and is emotional available to be vulnerable and open up when comfortable
  • Identities as a switch or domme and looking to explore

For Femdom related kink preferences I’d be happy to talk about that in private. Just know I’m not particular into me becoming more feminine as I rather present and be a more masculine submissive x

My Ideal Dynamic: (All up for discussion and finding what’s right for us)

  • Talk about what we like and hope to explore together.
  • Dedication and respect for each other.
  • Romantic dates and nights
  • Freely showing affection and appreciation, both sfw and nsfw
  • Protecting each other creating a safe space between us to be vulnerable and taking care of partner
  • Daily messages, voice messages, voice calls, pictures (sfw as well) and maybe watch film/play games together
  • Being clear and honest about feelings from every part of the relationship. Way we can understand how to make it work and each other very happy.
  • Open to exploring a variety of kinks and sharing each others desires.
  • Rules/Punishments (agreed upon)
  • Collaring/ownership aspect (maybe chastity)
  • Exploring more TPE aspects. Willing to give up more daily control to the right person if they’d desire that. All of this is just preference. Building a connection, relationship together is the most important to me and further maybe a dynamic all is negotiated and mutually enjoy aspects agree upon as happiness for both is vital for any relationship.

Bonus Round haha Just a passage I’d love to give a partner and hope she’d give to me back… …To love and respect my partner for who she really is. I commit to a relationship/dynamic fully with honesty and loyalty. Protects my partner physically and emotionally. Open minded and fulfil my partners mentally and sexually needs/desires. Always genuine and take responsibility for my actions and decisions with no excuses just honesty. Always open communication and being genuine in creating a safe space to explore, feel comfortable and have fun with each other with no judgement or pressure/expectation.

Thank you so much for reading my post. If you have any interest, please message me and if you could write a paragraph about yourself and why you think we would get along. Be creative and go for it shoot your shot haha. That would be amazing as genuine and high effort introductions are much appreciated thank you. All the best x

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