Hey there, lovelies! I’m a domme seeking a long-term submissive or sub-leaning switch partner. I am bisexual and open to partners of any gender. To be up-front, I am poly and have a primary/anchor partner. That said, the relationship I seek is not casual or purely friendly — I want romance and affection to be just as much a part of it as kink. I live in Northern VA, but am happy to travel through most of the DMV, and am also open to long distance connections. I’ve traveled great lengths for the right person before! I’d prefer you were between the ages of 21 and 35, although I’m flexible on that within reason. Beyond that, I am not picky about my partner’s height or looks.

Aesthetically I’m white, 5’11, and wear my hair as a pixie cut. I’m firmly in “plus size” territory, although I’m active and wear my weight well on account of my height. My style when I’m not in workwear could be described as on the lighter side of goth. I’ll be happy to swap pics early, and meet in person quickly if you are local.

Outside of the bedroom I am an accountant, a social justice advocate, a giant-ass nerd (or ass-nerd ;) ), and a lover of cats. Most of my days you’ll find me gaming online — Dota 2, story-driven games like the Mass Effect and Bioshock series, and 4x games like Stellaris are among my most played. I also have ongoing in-person TTRPG groups, play magic the gathering (mostly EDH), and love board games — both competitive and cooperative. I have six cats, because I’m insane. Sports, especially college football, are my biggest hobby outside of my general nerdery, although I consider my love of sports to be just as nerdy as my love of science fiction. Michigan football holds my heart during the fall, but I have a love for nigh all forms of physical competition.

My kinks are varied, and sometimes a bit incongruous. I consider myself a gentle/mommy domme, but I also have a sharp sadistic streak and enjoy causing pain, and seeing the results. I enjoy orgasm control and denial, although chastity isn’t a particular “thing” for me. JOI brings me JOI, you could say. ;) I like femininity and feminization, although “sissification” (humiliation for femininity, briefly defined to explain where I find the difference to be) is something that’s a bit of a turn-off. Pegging is fun! I am a lover of leather bondage but looking to expand my rope skills (bonus if you have the patience to let me practice on you!). As both a part of the mommy domme thing, and separate from it, my most “out-there” kink would be lactation and nursing. I am currently working on inducing lactation, so hopefully that would not be a dealbreaker (and if you’d be interested in that, even better!) I find nursing/adult breastfeeding to be incredibly comforting, sensual, and helps build a strong connection. That said, age regression is a limit for me, and ABDL is not a kink of mine. I prefer “mommy” to reflect my desire to take on a more nurturing and caring role in a relationship.

If any of the above interests you, or even if you’re local and would be interested in friendship, feel free to drop me a message or a chat. Chatting via discord will be easiest for me when we connect. Be well, and I look forward to hearing from you. :)