Hi there!

I hope my title resonated with you and thus, you ended up interested in my post! Before I explain the rest, I would like to state I'm a Switch technically but have explored both sides individually as well.

In general, my personality lends itself to a blend of chill, conversational, awkward, upfront about some topics and shy about others (you can probably guess to a certain degree which ones), but I definitely become more and more comfortable with someone I adore. As a sub, I've learned I really enjoy a dynamic where I can strongly adore my Domme I'm submitting to. In terms of experience, I have some primarily irl with two ex play-partners and one previously online.

Coming back to you though, I use the word "mean" but it could mean a few different things like with a sadistic streak instead. To give an idea of what I'm thinking, the most direct could be you have a streak of enjoying being degrading or verbal bullying, but alternatively it could be greatly enjoying the mental sadistic side of teasing, keeping me frustrated/flustered, and always wanting. It doesn't even have to include kinks per se, it could just be that personality within you. The one area I am not into in terms of a mean streak though is going too far in the physical pain aspect. Things like rougher play, hair pulling, face sitting, and choking I'm good with but I have boundaries around cbt and pain with tools like whips or whatnot.

For what I'm looking for in bullet form:

• In the end, I'm just looking for a Domme I can mesh well with that would like an ongoing dynamic. I live in Toronto but open to a blend of irl and online communication if you're further away.
• I'm looking for someone I can be friends with and form a dynamic with but not looking for a FLR.
• Someone who enjoys teasing is the best, doesn't even have to be sexual tbh!
• Someone who can mix in talking about random things but also add in the D/s dynamic we form.
• I'm open to appearance, honestly care more about personality especially as my form of submitting or worship comes through from that! ( Hopefully, you like some of the things I bring up below!
• Ideally, you are 25 !

About me:

• I'm pretty geeky tbh with hobbies including things like gaming (PC and PS5), reading a ton (history, sci-fi, classics, non-fiction things about society and tech), baseball, hiking, going to concerts, and making drinks.
• I personally don't think my "sub side" is obvious from the get-go. Maybe I'm wrong but I think it comes out more after I start to become attracted to you (and that means mentally moreso).
• I can be a tease, sometimes a smart-ass, playful at times, talk about more serious topics, and enjoy banter.
• I really like absurd humour among other things, I'm left-leaning politically but open to discussing, and a big fan of horror/thrillers.
• Physically, I'm 5'11, brown, 165lbs, short black hair, and brown eyes. I've got my own place but down to travel around as well!
• My kinks are not mandatory things but listing some, they are: teasing, worship (both physical and mentally), degradation, facesitting, orgasm control, outdoor play (not public), groping, giving oral, anal play, rough play such as hair-pulling/spanking, and open to discussing more.
• My limits include scat, blood, pee, tools to cause harm, and kinks focused on pain such as cbt.
• Something else to add, I'm not looking to send videos of me performing kinks if we form an online relationship. I can definitely send pics of myself to show who I am and of course, I'm open to irl but not open to videos/camming in that way.

That became longer than I thought! But hope you became interested as I'd love to chat! You can PM/DM me here and I'm open to chatting here or something like discord. Thanks for reading!