Hello lovely Dommes and fellow submissives!

I am hoping to get in touch with a fun and creative Mistress, who wants to play around with an awkward guy, eager to do his very best to obey and please Her.

About me:

I am a 29-year-old, single man living in Poland. 175 cm (5'9") tall and weigh 77 kg (169.5 lbs). I have short, brown hair and brown eyes. I attached some photos of myself, but covered my face for safety. I can send a regular selfie after texting for a little bit so I can feel more at ease.

Fully clothed: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Ix-uQhLfeisCrpmkN_tBKakCe8sFveBw?usp=sharing

No shirt / in underwear: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1U19LIQTvXfU7vUfajlRFe3EkzoITYIvt?usp=sharing

In terms of personality, I am quite introverted and can be a little shy at first. Not great at small talk and breaking the ice, but I do like spending time with people. When I get comfortable with someone and we "click," then I can get pretty talkative. I am not a stereotypical "alpha male," but not a pushover either, or at least I try not to be. I am overall a decently functioning adult with a pretty good job and a bachelor's degree in engineering.

Definitely more of an indoors person. Most of my hobbies and interests are rather stationary and require tools or a computer. I like tinkering and creating. I can use microcontrollers and write simple programs to make fun projects. I do basic 3D modeling to design various parts for 3D printing, which is my biggest hobby lately. I also know how to do photo and video editing. Nothing fancy, but I like doing it and it can be really useful. I have used some of my "skills" in the photos I sent. I had fun working on them, so I hope they are passable :)

Besides that, I like watching YouTube, either for fun or to learn something. I enjoy a TV show or a movie from time to time if something catches my eye. I very occasionally play video games.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for either a short or more long-term connection. It could be exclusively online or transition to real life if we happen to live nearby.

I would love to experience a dynamic based on trust, good communication and, of course, kink. I respect boundaries and do not try to force anything. I love getting and giving attention. I am diligent and eager to listen and obey, but also to have a casual conversation. In my regular life I usually dislike rules and regulations. In a femdom dynamic, however, they are thrilling and welcome. Feeling someone having power over me, making me do as they please and holding me accountable is very exciting. I like both harsh and gentle types of domination, as well as a mix of the two. Separation of kink and personal life is important to me. Setting some rules in place is a part of the play, but I am not looking for a fully 24/7 dynamic.

In regards to kink:

I am still inexperienced in either online or real life. That is why, despite knowing what I have interest in, I need to further explore what really works for me. That being said, I have a lot of kinks and I am open to many practices. Some of them are: tasks/orders, rules, orgasm control, joi, edging, desperation, showing off, pet play, light cbt, impact play, humiliation. I could go on and on, but it would make this post too long. I can further specify if required. I do not need all of my kinks to be fulfilled, good communication and compatibility are more important to me. My limits include findom, blackmail, excessive pain, permanent injury, anything that negatively affects anyone.

My preferences:

I would prefer someone not much older than me, up to around 35 y/o, with a lower limit being 20 y/o. I am also not attracted to overweight people. Being friends and hanging out is totally fine! It is just that a physical/sexual attraction is not there for me. This is a little hypocritical, as I am in the process of losing weight, but that is also part of the reason why I am working on myself. Because of that, I am perfectly fine if it is a deal breaker for someone.

Not interested in anyone in a committed relationship, unless their partner knows and is supportive of this. On the other hand, while I do not require any exclusivity, I also do not really want to be just one of a dozen other subs or to be expected to compete with someone.

Additional information:

I own a few toys and wearables. Lovense Gush for remote play, a regular buttplug, a collar, wrist and ankle cuffs, a little body harness, a chastity cage, regular clothespins. Besides that, I modified a vibrating buttplug for remote control, but it is not very portable. I was thinking about buying a real Lovense one, but it is not that fun when there is no one to control it. I am open to getting more toys and accessories.

I would prefer if You could verify after we chat for a bit. I do not mean by showing a face or body. Just a piece of paper with an agreed-on phrase and a hand gesture while holding it is enough for me. I can, of course, do the same.

I wish a great day to everyone and sorry for the long post :)