About me: I'm a 35-year-old woman who is looking for a long-term relationship with someone who is interested in the same thing. I am pansexual though I am heterosexual-leaning. I am open-minded, generally a homebody, I enjoy reading and being creative (whether that's creating art or being creative in the bedroom), I enjoy watching movies/tv, playing video games. I am sarcastic and enjoy friendly bantering with others.

What I look like: I'm a plus-sized, curvy, 5'5'', white woman, with an ass to die for, if I do say so myself. I have short curly dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

Who I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone to talk to and hang out with. Someone who is willing to take things slow - I'd want to start getting to know each other online, and if there is a spark for us both, we could slowly work our way to meeting in person, which is why I'm looking for someone local. Ideally, this person would be between the ages of 25-45.

While I am looking for a relationship, I still am pretty busy so I am looking for someone who is independent and has their own passions - I have obligations that won't allow me to control a sub 24/7. I am looking for a partner, someone interested in an equal relationship in public and in everyday life, someone to have conversations with and share opinions, go on dates with, someone to eventually share a life with; but in the bedroom, I want someone interested and even relishing in allowing me to lead and take control.

Kinks: My biggest kink is that I'm dominant - though I would classify myself as a gentle domme. I am interested in light impact play (spanking or with an implement), light CBT, pegging, edging/teasing, soft restraints/bondage, shibari. I'd love to explore this and more with the right person. Kink-wise, I'm pretty open to trying a lot depending on the circumstances. Consent and communication are non-negotiable for me - if you don't want to discuss things beforehand, I don't think this will work out.

Hard limits: Underage, real harm, blood, cnc, scat.

If you're local and the above sounds interesting, please send me a message telling me a little about yourself and what you're looking for.