Hi! I'm looking for someone that is interested in a femdom Relationship. This can start online, but ideally after we get to know each other better, we would go on a date. With the intention of having an in person dynamic.

I'm 5' 8" with a lean/athletic body type with brown hair (a tiny bit salt and pepper), light brown eyes and a very short neatly trimmed beard. (happy to quickly share pictures after exchanging a few messages)

A little about me - I enjoy hiking on trails and appreciate nature in general. I'm happiest in the fresh air with friends next to a bonfire. I like to go on mini vacations on the weekends and explore new places, try new restaurants, and check out the local scenery. That said, I equally enjoy cozy nights at home, binge watching shows and movies while curled up on the couch. I'm a bit of a nerd - I enjoy reading fiction and probably fall asleep every night with my Kindle. I also enjoy casually playing video games and board games with good company. Fitness is fairly important to me, and I exercise regularly (running, lifting, cycling, hiking and yoga).

For work I'm a clinical psychotherapist working in an outpatient setting. I absolutely love my job and I am passionate about mental health in general. I also do some teaching and some case supervision.

As a sub - Submission to me is about safety, intimacy, sincerity and vulnerability. Through submission and kink, I feel empowered to be vulnerable with my partner which cultivates sincere connection. Submission provides a scaffolding where I can find safety and share beautifully intimate moments with someone I care for deeply. It enables me to show affection in a way that speaks to who I am at my heart, a person who finds peace/purpose through reverence and giving. It's also really sexy and fun! A few kinks I enjoy are worship, bondage, obedience, predicaments, sensory play and orgasm control. I have several lovely friends in the kink community and attend munches fairly regularly.

What I bring to the table - I am offering companionship, stability and someone who will really be there for you through life's challenges. Someone that is caring and easy going, but fiercely passionate about the people and things I love. A submissive that has experience in kink and D/s relationships and knows the importance of effective communications, limits and boundaries. I have my own life together and would love to find someone to enjoy it with.

If you think we would get along and my post resonates with you please reach out. Let me know a bit about you, where we align and please put some effort into your message. I would love to chat and get to know each other, then ideally go on a date in person. Please be willing to share a SFW picture early in our convo and live relatively close to the Tri state area (Lowerish Connecticut, NYC/Hudson Valley, Northernish New Jersey).

Hope to hear from you!