Hello everyone, I am 27M from Manchester, UK. I'm looking for an IRL, monogamous, longterm relationship with a gentle dom or switch.

Sorry to be negative right at the start of my post but I am only into feminine people so if you are masculine I'm not looking for that unfortunately. Please also be from the UK and under 35

About me:

I am very athletic and usually do weight training at the gym 5 times a week. I am fairly muscular but I am very lean and toned instead of the hulking bodybuilder type. I play a few sports and I enjoy the outdoors, especially places around the sea. I am very nerdy and like to watch anime and play video games. I also love the clasic nerdy fandoms such as Star Wars and LOTR. I can speak Japanese as well.

My friends would say that I am confident and extroverted which is definitely true, however I also have a quiet, shy, introverted side which I want to share with the right person.

In terms of physical appearance, I am 5'10 with short brown hair and blue eyes. I dress quite stylishly and as I mentioned I have a lean muscular build. I am happy to send face pics on request but for now here is a picture to give you an idea about my body.

https://ibb.co/PYwvmBj

I would classify myself as a switch but I am very sub leaning so I would be very happy in a relationship with either a switch or dom.

What I'm looking for:

I am looking for an IRL relationship. I hate that I need to say this, but please dont message if you are going to get cold feet and ghost at the prospect of meeting IRL.

In general I'm looking for a gentle dom/switch that wants to obsess over me and be obsessed over. Please be 35 or younger, from the UK and have no kids. In terms of body type, anywhere from skinny to normal to muscular is great but I am not looking for any plus sized people sorry.

I am clingy so I am your man if you want to recieve and give lots of attention. If you are the type of person who only sends one text a day we aren't a good match. If you only want attention when you're feeling lonely or horny and disappear otherwise we alsp wont be a good match.

Someone in or around the Manchester area would be ideal.

We can talk about kinks when you message but these are some things that are definite no's:

-Mommy/daddy doms

-Non-monogamy / open relationships

-Any aspect of findon or money being involved

-Blood, scat, heavy pain

Dom preferences:

When people think of a dom, I imagine a lot of them imagine a someone stern in leather gear with a riding crop. Although im sure this is someones dream woman, this isnt the kind of dom I'm looking for.

I am looking for someone soft, cute and kind who wants to give and recieve lots of love and affection. My natural tendency is to be needy and clingy so if this will annoy you I may not be the right match for you. It's important to mention that I would like this dynamic to remain mostly in the bedroom and act more or less like a regular couple when we are in public.

In the bedroom I want to completely submit and be controlled and used however my dom feels like. Mild humiliation and degregation are fine. I particularly like pet play and the idea of being owned by someone. Pegging and facesitting are also great. Im up for trying most things at least once and am very open minded to experiencing new kinks.

I have absolutely no d/s experience so if you are looking for an experienced partner that isnt me.

If you've read all of this through to the end, hopefully this sounds like something you would be interested in. If so, send me a quick message with your name, age and a bit about yourself. I will only be sending a face pic once we have been chatting for a while so I wont ask anyone to send their face immediately. However if you feel like it then go ahead and send a face pic with your message.

If there is anything I have missed that you want to know about me, feel free to ask and i'll be happy to answer any questions 😊