I am looking for a life partner who is my sub.

A bit about me:

1. Vanilla me -- highly involved in volunteering for a non-profit that runs a queer comic con, long-time fanfic writer, musical lover, dog and rabbit mom.

I'm Jewish, emphasis on the Jew, not the ish. I keep Kosher in my house and Kosher-style outside of it, I'm heavily involved in my shul, I don't celebrate Christmas, I DO celebrate a bunch of holidays most people have never heard of. I'm also an atheist. It's not a religious thing. It's a cultural, communal, and traditional thing.

I vote. In pretty much every election, even stuff that arguably doesn't really affect me, like schoolboard stuff.

I don't have kids, and at this point, I'm not looking to have any. I would be open to someone who has older kids, e.g., 14 , but if you're looking for someone to have a family with: not the right match.

Physically, I'm roughly 5'1", about 120lbs, average body type, 32DD/E, brown hair, blue eyes, Ashkenazi.

1. I'm monogamous. I've tried other approaches, and I recognize they are great for others, I'm a one-to-one woman.

2. Kink me. I'm a TPE lifestyle dom. (I don't use the term domme, despite being femme, sub isn't gendered, I see zero reason why dom should be.) I'm also sadistic, but if you're into receiving pain, we're not the right match. The best term for the kind of sadist I am that I've ever seen is being into consensual suffering. That is, if you're into suffering for my pleasure, then we're the right fit.

Preferred age limit is 30 - 55.

Physically, I tend to prefer femmes, but I'm flexible on that.

1. My known limits: cg/lg, race play, face slapping, being penetrated by anything other than a tongue, giving oral, scat, vomit, asphyxiation, feet (soft), rope (soft), fire, public play (outside of kink spaces), penises, men.

If you've made it through this, congrats. Get yourself something for your blood sugar, hydrate. If you're actually interested, shoot me a DM. I only start biting after a date or two and some engaged negotiation.