Greetings community! My name is Transcendent♡ and honestly, I don't do labels in my day to day life. Though, for the sake of being thorough and transparent for this ad, I’ll cave jussssst this once 😌

I am: • 26 years old •Disabled (a dynamic disability that I occasionally use a cane for, give it a google♡) •Poly (currently single) •Neurodivergent •AFAB nonbinary •Queer.

I am a switch (s-type leaning), though I am not looking to fill a Dominant role with anyone at this time or the near future. If anything, I am just open to absorbing information about D-type skills and etiquette as I move through this journey together as your potential submissive. I am 5’3”, poc, 132lbs, pronouns are they/them (princess if ya nasty)♡

My reason for posting this personal ad is that I am in search of an experienced Femme or Nonbinary D-type, who has interest in - and maybe even a slight passion for - helping to guide less experienced subs. I am looking for a (preferably) long term, part time D/s dynamic primarily online, and I would prefer to take things slowly and intentionally. I hope to have a close connection and friendship built on trust, respect and transparency. And if things expand/evolve that’s great! And if not, at least we’ve made a solid friendship and gained another trusted connection in community with each other!♡

I am organically a cautious, yet very curious kind of person, and as such have not experienced what some refer to as ‘frenzy’. I love to move slowly, I relish the experience of learning and the feeling of accomplishment that comes with gaining new skills. Especially when those skills arm one with the ability to expand community liberation, care and sluttiness♡

As far as kink/bdsm related interests, I like filling time by seeking out and researching about queer leather history, kink/bdsm history and etiquette. Absorbing as much inclusive, reputable, kink/sex education as I can access.

With that in mind, I am interested in connecting with a D-type who has interest/knowledge in queer leather history, who enjoys - potentially even finds a little bit of pride in - sharing their knowledge and wisdom with a motivated submissive.

On the non-kinky end, I enjoy volunteering at my local botanical garden, a myriad of arts (playing instruments, leathercrafting, painting, drawing to name a few) and putting on 1 person concerts while I cook and clean🕺🏾 I also enjoy working out when my chronic pain allows, and when it doesn’t, I enjoy prioritizing my rest and healing♡

Some of my kinks (so far 🤭 )are: CG/lo (no age regression, can go into more detail about all kinks privately), impact play, sensation play, leather and rope bondage, pet play, breath play, fisting, body part torture, cnc, voyeurism/exhibitionism and multiple penetration ☺️

At this time, some kinks I am uninterested in are: scat play, latex/rubber, hoods (sensory depravation kind, not pet play kind), ABDL, incest play, race play, vomit play and military/police roleplay, anything illegal. I'm sure this isn't a complete list, and as I learn more will probably develop more interests and disinterests.

I have a pretty open schedule, which leaves me with the ability to accommodate time differences within reason.

The preferred age range I am seeking is 28-40, trans/nonbinary-competent and disability-competent non-negotiable. Trauma-informed a plus. Dad-jokes and puns x10,000 brownie points.

A thousand thank-yous for your time and consideration in reading this lengthy little ad, I look forward to connecting!♡

All my warmth ✨️ -Transcendent