Hi, I'm a local to Vegas, 36, 6'2, fat and working on it, introverted, subby anal slut, service sub, with an oral fixation and a diaper fetish looking for a kinky, romantic, relationship with a top. Now that we're clear there, let's get into who I am:

Single, no strings attached, pansexual adult with most of my life together I live on my own, with an appreciable job, a car and most anything you might consider 'adult' I'm a tech nerd, I spend a lot of my free time playing PC games, I like competitive games and always take the support / heal slut role if I can. I'm a huge hockey fan (Go Knights go!) Star Trek, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Below Deck (guilty pleasure), The Office, Parks and Rec, The Guild, and most 90s and early 00s comedy movies with a special place for Bio Dome and Weekend at Bernies. I like fast cars, and long drives listening to 70s, 80s and 90s pop and early 00s emo music. House music, trance and The Midnight are welcome too. I'm an occasional drinker and frequent stoner, I don't judge until it gets hard. Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy quotes make me melt. I am a constant ponderer of life, the universe and everything. I love science and astronomy. Who are we, why are we, are we the only? I want to believe. I am a 'leftist' in that I believe that we should all care for ourselves, our fellow humans and the place we call home. Human rights, health care, the future of humanity in coexistence, these should be the priorities of the next hundred years. I recently got my passport and am hopefully looking for someone who'd like to travel a bit. Childfree as hell, children are the future but they're not part of my future. What I'm looking for:

Hopefully you if you're reading this, but honestly I'm open to anyone who resonates with anything I've written here. I idealize a dominant personality that complements my subby desires to please, because we're all looking for our matching puzzle pieces. Someone who isn't afraid to speak plainly of their wants and needs to help me accommodate them the best I can. Ideally, someone who isn't afraid to make plans and bring me along, but also willing to accompany me on the few, far between plans I would like to do. Someone who enjoys live music, I love to see my favorite bands, and hopefully see yours too. Someone local or at least on the same continent who is okay planning to meet up within the first few months, as physical connection is so important. I want to end up in the PNW in the next few years so bonus points if you give me a reason to make it sooner. My Kink Summary:

I am a big masochist, pain is pleasure (please spank/hurt me), with an overwhelming obsession of bottoming for anal and anal stretching, giving oral, and a diaper fetish. I also love humiliation and degradation. I don't identify as an adult baby, but a bedwetting problem and a kink for diapers puts off a lot of people. And the ABDL accessories are fun and adorable. There's a lot of devious scenes between these interests to be had! I am also open to a cuck relationship as I realize a small dick bedwetter isn't everyone's preferred partner. I'm willing to strap on in return too! Rules, and punishments for breaking them, are the key to my subby heart. Open to try most anything twice, and decide after that if it's right for me. Not into chastity but absolutely into orgasm control. Open to gender bending (I love pink but I'm not a sissy), forced bi, group play. Limits: blood, needles, animals, findom

Consent is everything.

If you made it this far, thank you! Please send me a message, I'd be happy to chat and hopefully meet up!