DO NOT message me if you even think you can’t handle daily contact, or if you make big promises you can’t deliver on.

About me:

I’m a 49 year old lifestyle Domme with 25 years of experience, however I’ve been away from it for the last few years and I’m definitely missing it in my daily life. I’m a Latina BBW, 5’2”, with deep brown eyes and shoulder length wavy to curly dark hair, plus I’m deliciously bottom heavy. I was the big titty goth girlfriend way before it was cool, now I’ve earned elder Goth Mommy status. I’m inclined to be a gentle Domme, but I can be quite moody & vicious at times.

I’ve always been a geeky person, autistic as hell and am prone to hyperfixating on my interests, which include the Star Trek universe, cats, live music, 1980s-2000s post punk, electronic & indie rock, Apple technology, plane crashes, astronomy, and leftist politics; to the silly, whimsical and absurd (like my sense of humor). Memes and cat pics are one way to get my attention.

My main kinks include: face sitting, body worship, smothering, spanking, foot worship, nipple play, overstimulation, fat woman/thin man relationships, FLR, age gap (older woman/younger man only), CBT, himboification, edging, psychological control, and verbal humiliation.

Hard limits: chastity, vomit, spitting, polyamory/ENM, ABDL, incest, CEI, sissification, vore, and race play. I also hate porn addicts and I don’t give tasks. 

What I’m searching for:

I want an ongoing online dynamic only at this time, one where my pleasure is centered and made your ultimate priority. Being in the SF Bay Area won’t earn you any extra points, in fact it doesn’t much matter to me which time zone you’re in tbh as long as you interact with me daily, plus I’m often online when the rest of the West Coast is sleeping. My relationship style is monogamous, so I expect the same from you if this is serious for both of us. SFW pics are desirable but not necessary, as trust is built I will share mine in kind.

My ideal younger sub guy is:

• late 20s-30s, no older than 37
• thin to athletic body type
• smooth or has very little body hair
• hung at least 7”, don’t ask for exceptions
• a natural exhibitionist, or intrigued by it
• intellectually curious
• verbose & can dirty talk well
• emotionally intelligent
• self confident

I’m a size queen, so over 7” will go to the front of the line. I’m also a sucker for a nice voice and an accent, especially Australian and European, as well as dark hair with pale skin and light colored eyes. Height is largely irrelevant to me, but there is something tantalizing about controlling a man much taller than me. As far as gender presentation, I much prefer masculine men but I do enjoy pretty femboys on occasion as well.

I will only reply to quality men who give me thoughtful responses, including a detailed physical description. If this post is up I’m still looking.