Greetings community! My nickname is Zee, scene-name lamb♡ and I despise labels. Though, for the sake of being thorough and transparent for this ad, I’ll cave jussssst this once 😌

I am a 26 year old, mixed, disabled (a dynamic disability that I occasionally use a mobility aid for, give it a google), neurodivergent, AFAB, Nonbinary, queer, switch (s-type leaning). I am 5’3” pronouns are they/them (princess if ya nasty)♡

My reason for posting this personal ad is that I am in search of an experienced Domme/D-type, who has interest in - and maybe even a slight passion for - helping to mentor and guide less experienced subs.

I have plenty of experience experimenting with myself and past partners to know a good amount of kinks that I enjoy the sensations of (immensely). It was a difficult journey when I first began dipping my toes in at sixteen, with little to no community or resources available to me growing up in rural Maine, and even less queer community to lean on or commiserate with. Since moving to the city a little over three years ago, I’ve dipped further and further into community, and feel more than prepared to explore more aspects of my kinky-ness and limits with safety-focused, like-minded, kinky queers♡ I feel that I am now ready to take the next step of learning how to play with others and build trusted connections. I feel so enthusiastic about exploring the nuances of leather culture that come from actually immersing yourself in it vs reading about it.

I am organically a cautious, yet very curious kind of person, and as such have not experienced what some refer to as ‘frenzy’. I love to move slowly, I relish the experience of learning and the feeling of accomplishment that comes with gaining new skills. Especially when those skills arm one with the ability to expand community liberation, care and sluttiness♡

I like filling time by seeking out and researching about queer leather history, kink/bdsm history and etiquette, Absorbing as much reputable, kink/sex education as I can access. With that in mind, I am interested in connecting with a D-type who has interest/knowledge in queer leather history, who enjoys - potentially even finds a little bit of pride in - sharing their knowledge and wisdom with a motivated submissive..

I have attended only a couple of in-person kink events (a third coming up this week yay!), as I am finally finding myself able to conquer my pandemic anxieties after working so long on the frontlines. I am much less anxious as I see more spaces implementing masking policies for indoor events (yay for accessibility!).

I can understand that taking on the responsibility of a newbie can be exhaustive, and so am also open to any advice/personal anecdotes on where to gain more experience that may lead skeptical or unsure D-types at this time, to be more interested in connecting in the future as I continue to grow and learn ♡

Some of my kinks (so far 🤭 )are: f/nbDD/MD/lo, impact play, sensation play, leather and rope bondage, pet play, breath play, fisting, body part torture, cnc, voyeurism/exhibitionism and multiple penetration. Varying levels of skill in each kink and I’ve physically done them all a good amount of times. Some with and to partners, others autoerotically. Though my aim, of course, is always to be the best I can be at everything that I so deeply enjoy 🥰

At this time, some kinks I am uninterested in are: scat play, latex/rubber, hoods (sensory depravation kind, not pet play kind), ABDL, incest play, race play, vomit play and military/police roleplay.

I have a pretty open schedule, which leaves me with the ability to accommodate time differences within reason.

The preferred age range I am seeking is 28-40, trans/nonbinary and disability-competent non-negotiable. Trauma-informed a plus. Dad-jokes and puns x10,000 brownie points.

A thousand thank-yous for your time and consideration in reading this lengthy little ad, I look forward to connecting!♡

All my warmth ✨️ -lamb♡