I'm 32, single, no kids, monogamous and I live in central FL. I have not experienced a D/s dynamic or a female lead relationship but from the stories and conversations I've had with others about the lifestyle I have always been extremely interested. I'm 5' 4", African American and on the slightly plumper side.

What am I looking for in a sub? Age range of 25 - 45 (I can be generous with this if our non sexual chemistry is strong but absolutely no one under the age of 21) I’m not overly picky on looks. My minimum preference is typically someone taller than me (not very challenging since I'm quite short) and lean more masculine than femboy. I would like someone that has the same interest and a strong emotional connection. I’m not looking for a playmate but a long term relationship partner.

Location wise, I would like someone that is close because in person meetings are a must for me. If you do not live in my area/state/country but are willing to travel to me or make a large effort to meet in person often then i’m open to it. I do not want anything that is exclusively online.

A bit of a nerd. Really into anime, conventions, and the occasional cosplay. I wouldn't call myself a gamer per say, I'm an avid watcher of let's plays. I do work regularly so traveling is not always something I can do but I really enjoy it. I've been to Japan three times and did a month-long Europe trip a few years ago. I do not drink or smoke and I'm not 420 friendly. I don’t mind if you drink as long as you are responsible. More left leaning politically and would prefer that you were.

I can also be a homebody. I'll never turn down a day of lounging around and just binging a show and vibing. I love the ocean and despite living here for a decade I have yet to visit a beach here lol. As long as I'm not being dragged into 100 degree heat I'm normally down for anything outdoors!

Kinks, like I said I'm inexperienced but I'm open to trying most things. I'm interested in body worship, oral worship, bondage, leashing, orgasm control, denial/teasing/edging. I'm open to chastity, pegging and anal play.

My hard limits are: pain, cuckolds, age play, sissification, slave treatment, extreme degrading, blood, scat, etc.

I prefer gentle domme because I have no interest in inflicting pain or making someone feel like absolute garbage. The world is already harsh enough. If you'd enjoy laying your head on my lap while I run my fingers through your hair and tell you your a good boy while also enjoying being strapped down and edged for hours while I sit on your face and milked dry afterwards then we'll probably get along wonderful!

Please include information about yourself if you DM me. I do not like my time being wasted. I do not mind exchanging photos but I will not accept nudes nor will I send them to you.