What brings me to reddit for dating: I have struggled finding a woman who is into gentle femdom and role reversal through normal means of dating. When I bring it up, usually its a red flag, or usually just told not into that. Which is fine! But I've tried relationships without it, and its what I need/want to have a happy successful relationship.

Age: 33, open to 24-55. I'm more about attraction and maturity.

Appearance: I'm 5'10", short brown hair, brown eyes, white/tan skin. I have a sleeve of tattoos, and working on a leg sleeve. Have a mustache. Really lean into the sad hipster boy look. Usually wearing a band t-shirt and hoochie daddy shorts. I work out 3/4 times a week. I've been told I am handsome, if you like brown hair and brown eyes. 

Location: Currently I live in nowhere NE Ohio. I work remotely for work so open to travel to meet, and open to relocation if it grows more serious. Not looking for a permanent LDR, but open to it.

Looking For: A loving and caring relationship who just happens to be my best friend as well. I would be ok if occasionally into the more domme nature of it, but really looking for more of the gentle femdom and role reversal parts. I would like someone who is ready to be vulnerable and open, and I will do the same.

Traits I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding, emotionally intelligent, communicates well, therapy is a big plus.

Non-sexual interests: I have a bunch of interests that include (yet not contained to): video games, audiobooks, playing with my two dogs, riding my motorcycle, working out, paddleboarding, going to see live shows (love me some whiny boys that sing about their exes bands), indoor plants (ask me to see my plants). Big fan of game of thrones and could talk for hours about it. I

Personality: I've been told I can be very analytical. I am introverted, but can be very personable with people when I can. I have a knack for getting people to like me. I'm emotionally intelligent (yay therapy) and can be very non serious about many things. Usually more self deprecating. Not a drama filled person and have my shit together, and want to share that with someone.

Sexual stuff

Are you actually sub?:  I'm strongly leaning sub, but have known to be more dominant if my partner really wants me to be. I find myself enjoying the submissive side. I'm a people pleaser.

Are you just sexually sub or enjoy nonsexual aspects as well?: I enjoy all aspects of it. I actually probably enjoy the nonsexual aspects even more. Like I want to be your adoring boyfriend in all aspects.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: 

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are my favorites! I enjoy having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me throughout the day for example.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and being a bit territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to her and no one else.
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and penis/prostate milking
• Continuing on the possessive aspect, it's really very flattering for me to see someone desire me so much and be possessive over me. I'm very happy to show my devotion
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on, and definitely makes me feel like I belong to you. I'm very into the idea of putting my lips and tongue all over.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, affection, spending time together, adoring you, seeing you be happy, sexually pleasing you. I love casual and emotional intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I'll always be there to support you, and seeing that I made the difference for you is incredibly satisfying for me.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, permanent injuries, physical torture

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of the alt/goth girl with a bunch of tattoos. Not a dealbreaker but definitely attracted to that type. Usually if you take the lead I'll be attracted to you to be honest.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement for me. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I want dearly in a relationship.