Why am I here?: I’ve been posting on this subreddit on and off for the better part of 5 years now. I’ve sadly not yet found the missing piece of my puzzle. But I’ve had more in depth conversations and cordial relationships here than traditional dating apps, which is why I love this place. I feel like I really can get on a podium and have my words carry the weight instead of my looks, despite those not being too shabby.

Age I’m 23 looking for someone aged 18-26. The reason for this age range is because I’m looking for someone who is in a similar stage of life as myself and who can relate to me and who I can relate to.

Location: I’m located in the near Amsterdam region of the Netherlands. My ideal partner would be located here or anywhere within travel distance of my location. I’m willing to do long distances if the other person is willing to put in the effort as well.

Appearance: I’m 5’9 with long dark brown hair. I’ve got hazel eyes with masculine facial features and a strong jawline. I’ve got an athletic and stocky build and workout 6 times a week and am currently cutting after having a bit of a too successful bulk, but will remain to have my sizeable derriere. I’ll also be providing pictures below so you can judge for yourself. I’ve also been told I’ve got a nice voice.

Face(SFW): https://imgur.com/a/lGHQ7hP

Body(NSFW): https://imgur.com/a/jcTqgyo

Personality: My strongest virtues are kindness, loyalty and honor. I treat everyone at least with basic politeness and am known for my nice and supportive nature by friends and family. I’m a loyal friend and I never share secrets behinds someone’s back and I see betrayal as one of the biggest sins. Also my honor is important to me and what I understand as honor is to never betray yourself and your values while sticking to what’s right even if it’s difficult.

For the rest I’m a level-headed, introverted yet social, curious and affectionate guy who likes to hangout with his friends and crack jokes and hug those closest to him.

Non sexual interests: My non-sexual interests include but are not limited to: Gaming, working out, going on walks, listening to music, listening to podcasts, listening to audiobooks, hanging out, interesting conversations, goofy conversations, reading manga, playing board games, watching series, watching moves, engaging in nerd stuff and learning new things.

Sexual and relationship interests: I’m a very openminded guy and one’s dynamic with different people is always different to each other but here are some baseline things I’m into and would like in a relationship/dynamic

·         Trust, vulnerability, affection gentle femdom. In a partner I value to be able to show Trust, vulnerability and affection. I like to feel at ease and not like I’m walking on glass with my partner which is essential to any good relationship. Neither am I looking to be vulnerable as glass only to get shattered to a million pieces. Being vulnerable is a scary but rewarding thing and if I can’t be like that to my prospective most important person in the world then what is the point? Also I’m a giant puppy in the sense that I love to give and receive verbal affection all day long. All of these more tender things can also be incredibly erotic and sensual to me in the form of gentle femdom.

·         Quality time and clear communication. One of the most important thing to a potential partner to me is that we have a good time with each other and that we actually enjoy spending our time with each other. I don’t intend to be some sexdoll which can be picked up just as easily as he can be put down. I like it when someone is clear to me when they’re going to be available and they’re not. I don’t require someone to spend all their time with me 24/7 and I find people who have a life of their own very attractive, but I do like to know what I can expect since I experience these types of relationships very intensely on an emotional level.

·         Possessiveness, sadism and eroticism. I’m a sucker for a domme who wants me to be hers, shows it and claims me and will make known that I’m her property. It’s a huge compliment and turn on for me to have someone to want to have me and makes me feel treasured. I also love a domme who not only wants to own me and my submission but also finds enjoyment in hurting me a little physically and humiliating me a bit mentally, while still remaining to able to be affectionate. I’m a big fan of mixing pleasure, pain, affection and humiliation in one spicy erotic cocktail. Also I love eroticism. I like to be a sucker for the erotic essence of my domme and love to be desired and objectified as well. I like to show off and be an object of desire and to drool for my mistress as an object of my desire when she deems it worthy.

Closing statements: if my ad has gotten me in your good graces I’d love to hear from you. If you valued this ad but didn’t seem it to your personal preference I’d highly appreciate some form of support and thank you for reading!