Thanks for checking out my post! It's been a while since I've done one of these, so I hope you'll bear with me as I stumble my way through this.

Like the title says, I'm a 30 year old cis male (5'5" with short brown hair, brown eyes, & a bit of a dad bod) from the Boston, MA area who's looking for a gentle Domme to talk to and hopefully develop a relationship with. Preferably, you'd be local, but I'm open to meeting someone long distance with the expectation that we'd eventually meet in person. Speaking of expectations, I'd prefer to start out chatting casually and building a rapport before considering any kind of dynamic or committed relationship. My last endeavors for making connections on reddit were extremely disappointing as the women who'd message me would try to rush things and lose interest in a couple days or even hours of chatting after I let them know my boundaries. I am not some novelty to be used and thrown away, I am a human being with feelings and limits.

I believe that respect should be mutual. I will always show you respect as long as you respect me in return. I pride myself on being polite, but if boundaries are crossed, I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. If you're looking for a slave without limits and who won't question you when you're being unreasonable, I'm not your guy. I'm looking for a partner, not a dictator.

That got serious real fast, didn't it? It's important stuff though, so it's best to get it out there early. Anyway, I'm usually a pretty chill person who prefers to go with the flow. I'm shy in crowds, but I open up a lot in private. Empathy is super important to me, so I tend to surround myself with people who have plenty of it. Most of my friends are LGBTQ , so being an ally is a quality I hold in high regard. I'm not interested in you if you have any kind of prejudices. I am politically very left-leaning, and I'd hope you are too.

How about some fun things to lighten the mood? I'm a gamer at my core, and I'd love to have someone else to share that with. My top 3 games right now would probably be Destiny 2, Stardew Valley, and Red Dead Redemption 2, but I'll play pretty much anything other than sports & racing games. I'm also a VR enthusiast! I've got my own VR set up and I play VRChat with friends weekly. I also play D&D with friends weekly, which I'm super proud of and could talk about it for hours. I also stream on Twitch as a vtuber!

I'm a movie lover with a heavy focus on Sci-Fi and Fantasy. I'm a big Star Wars fan, but I'm not keen on the sequel trilogy. I'm also a science & nature nerd, and I love learning about new things. Did you know that 25% of all known species on Earth are beetles? It's wild.

As for other hobbies, I like baking/cooking, reading, & building/collecting LEGO. I also used to do all kinds of artsy craftsy stuff, but have kinda fallen off on all that due to artist block.

I should probably mention some kink stuff considering where I'm posting, but I'll keep it brief. I'm about 99% submissive, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. I also consider myself a service sub. My preferred dynamic would extend outside the bedroom into a FLR.

My main kinks are: Mommydom, praise, discipline, light bondage, edging/teasing, pussy/body worship, & collars/pet play.

Major limits include: Scat/body fluids, hardcore humiliation/sph, cbt, chastity, cuckolding/cheating, findom, hardcore pain, blackmail, and anything illegal.

This isn't kink related, but I don't really like children and have no intention of having any of my own. Just thought I should put that out there in case that's a dealbreaker.

If you've made it this far, congratulations! You've won a gold star*. Hopefully that means you're interested in getting to know each other, in which case shoot me a message telling me a bit about yourself! I can't wait to get to know you.

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