Hello! I'm a 23 yo girl from Italy, here to find my very own good boy~ a romantic partner for a long term, female led relationship.

What I'm looking for

I'm into gentle femdom, but NOT mommy dom style. What I want is a "service sub" or what I imagine would be the relationship between a queen and her knight: I love the idea of a stereotypical protective and strong man who chooses to submit to his domme, while she cherishes his loyalty and cares for him in return.

Here, here and here are some sfw examples of the vibe I’m thinking about.

Of course, I’m looking for a romantic connection and partner first and foremost: a man who’s kind, respectful, intelligent, caring and romantic.

Ideally, this person is:

• between 22-26 yo
• taller and bigger than me (not necessarily muscular!)
• from Europe or willing to meet in EU countries
• non smoker, living a "healthy" lifestyle
• cis or trans man, masculine presenting

What I'm NOT looking for:

• • a slave or slut
• a mommydom dynamic (I still love the caring/stern vibe of it)
• a sissy or femboy
• a needy and clingy person who can't live without my attention for a single minute
• to be a kink dispenser for horny men’s pleasure and fantasies

About me

I'm introverted, sensitive and quiet. I tend to be reserved and stay by myself most of the time unless I'm with people I know and care about, then I become more extroverted and energetic. People often come to me to get advice or have a shoulder to cry on, though I'm not an empath or a people person. However, I try my best to make people comfortable and get along with everyone.

I love reading, music (rock and metal are my fav genres), movies and shows (Ghibli, VivziePop, animated stuff in general), good food and cuisine, travelling by train, alone time, camping and swimming. I graduated from university in December and am now working as an employee.

Some random facts about me:

• I can feel literal pain when I see nature being destroyed by mankind, it makes me cry to think trees are being taken down just to build fucking malls and parking lots
• I'm extremely uncomfortable around children and I don't want any in the future
• When I visit a new country, the first thing I want to do is try their traditional food and learn more about their cooking!
• SensualFemdom is my favorite subreddit

Physically I'm 5'5'' (167cm), curvy (big thighs and boobs), with brown hair and brown eyes, feminine presenting. I’ve been told many times my body is like a warm pillow.

Favourite kinks: restraining and bdsm, cuddles, kisses, pussy and body worship, edging and teasing, being served and taken care of like a queen, giving praise, office fantasy (I love suits!), collaring, lipstick marks, very light pain.

Limits and turn-offs: feminization, sissyfication, humiliation, the honorifics "mommy" and "mistress", cbt, cuckold, micromanaging, scat, blood, and the usual hardcore stuff.

Anything not listed is a "maybe" or "willing to try" (eg: pegging).

Lastly, my favourite three songs that give me gentle femdom vibes: one, two, three.

Please, write a small presentation about yourself when reaching out to me, and answer the question “what’s your favourite food” so I know you’ve read this ad attentively. Don’t just say “hi” cause I won’t answer that. I will ignore anyone not respecting the age limit and kink compatibility (eg: calling me “mommy”).