Hi there, thanks for clicking! These things are always a little awkward, but here it goes. A little about me, my post says F but I identify as NB, I just have female parts and some people are into that over gender. I’m also a switch and right now I’m interested in finding a play partner that’s either a sub, dom, or another switch. I’ve dommed more in the past few years but would be really interested in subbing. As a pan-ish person, I’ve subbed for more men than women and nbs, which is a shame cause women are awesome. I am also perfectly happy to dom, there’s no better feeling than watching a sub react to the things you’re doing to them.

I find my kinks are pretty similar on the dom or the sub side. I’m a fan of impact play, bondage, nipple torture, anal play, blindfolds, wax play, mild humiliation, and love edging/tease and denial, orgasm denial, post orgasm torture, forced orgasms, and just things involving orgasm control in general. With that being said, part of what I like about being a dom is seeing the reaction I can get out of my sub. So, if there’s something you like that’s not on my list, by all means let me know. My limits include scat, watersport, blood, and permanent marks. Also, safewords are a must. We don’t have to share all the kinks, but it would be nice to have kinks in common.

Having been into kinks for over a decade, I’ve found good communication and a certain amount of emotional maturity are a must. Kinks can be light and fun, but it can also be intimate and intense (hopefully still fun). I will always treat my partners with respect and I expect the same in return. We’re all people at the end of the day, not living sex toys.

As for who I’m looking for, I prefer someone close(ish) to my age. So, people in their 20s, 30s, and 40s are welcome. You must also be in Pittsburgh or at least a reasonable driving distance from Pittsburgh. I don’t like online only, it just doesn’t cut it for me. I don’t really care about body type. I think it’s more important that we click as people. But sometimes, it takes me a bit to get to know a person before an attraction grows.

Outside of kinks, I’m a pretty chill person. Kind of a nerd, kind of an awkward dork, but hopefully you find it endearing more than off putting. I’m a big music and art person, I love going to all the art things around town in the summer. I also enjoy trying new foods, cooking, and watching movies. Not a movie but Buffy is my favorite tv show. We will probably get along if you get my username reference. If any of that caught your eye, then please shoot me a message.