Hello there! I hope you're all having a lovely summer so far (or whatever season it is in your part of the world). I've posted here a few times before and chatted with some lovely people, but haven't quite been able to find that ideal connection yet. As the title says, I'm very much a hopeless romantic, and perhaps it's silly to seek my forever person here, but I'll keep out holding out hope that I can find her. This will be a bit of a long post, so let me break it down into a few bullet points.
About Me
I'm very much an introvert and a homebody. It takes time to come out of my shell, but once I get comfortable with someone, I can be very talkative. I tend to prefer staying in and binge watching a TV show or playing board games, but I don't mind going out as well, though my social battery can run out fairly quickly.
Definitely a nerd. I spend most of my free time playing video games. I have a Switch and PC and I'm debating picking up a PS5. It would be awesome if you're a gamer, but it's totally cool if you have different hobbies!
Despite the nerdiness and introverted nature (or because of it?) I do love being active and spending time outdoors. I'm an avid runner who has completed three marathons. Always up for a fun adventure, whether it's kayaking or hiking or riding roller coasters or jumping out of a plane.
I do have to admit I'm a bit inexperienced with relationships. I've only been in one long term relationship that ended back in 2019. So I'm hoping to find someone who's a bit patient and doesn't mind my inexperience.
My Kinks
As I'm sure you could surmise from my post title, my biggest kink is cuckolding. I love the idea of staying faithful and devoted to my partner while encouraging her to unleash her sexuality and enjoy liaisons with other men. Whether that means a long-term relationship with a second boyfriend, or lots of encounters with a myriad of different bulls, I'm open minded. Because in the end, I'm all about surrendering control. I want my partner to be happy and fulfilled and pleasured and feel free to do whatever makes her most satisfied.
Aside from cuckolding, I enjoy orgasm control and denial. I haven't tried chastity before, but it seems fun! I'm open to trying pegging. Also into service submission and pet play. I do want a female led relationship in which my partner makes the decisions and takes the lead, but I do still want to be respected and heard. In the end, we're both adults and good communication is essential for any relationship, but especially one with the potential pitfalls that could come along with femdom and cuckolding.
Potential Deal Breakers
Smoking or vaping. I have sensitive lungs and being around smoke or vapor makes me sick. Edibles are totally fine, though.
I don't want kids. I am 100% childfree and will never change my mind, so if you want kids or you're on the fence, we're unfortunately not compatible.
My aforementioned sole romantic relationship ended amicably, and I'm still good friends with my ex. I understand that makes some people uncomfortable, which is totally valid, so I wanted to be open and upfront about that.
I'm very politically engaged and left-wing. If you "don't do politics" or you're a moderate, we won't get along. I'm a proud feminist and vehemently pro-choice, as well as anti-capitalist. Also an atheist, though I am an official member of The Satanic Temple and I do like a lot of witchy/pagan stuff.
There's definitely more I could go into detail about, but I feel like I've been rambling incoherently this entire time, so I think it's time I wrap this up. I'm open to relocation in the future, but I'm currently in school in addition to working full time, so I probably wouldn't be able to relocate for a few years until I finish up getting my license. So for now, I'm totally open to long distance.
Anyways, if anything I've said here has struck your fancy, send a message my way. I wish you all the very best. Take care!
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