Hello, thanks for taking the time to read “M4F post #1,496,000” I really appreciate it.

——About me: non-kinky edition——

I graduated college a little over a year ago, working in NYC and saving money to afford a place to live that’s closer to the city than where I currently live (the great state of Pennsylvania). I love it here, but I’m young enough that I would like to at least be able to say I spent some time in NYC, and now seems like the most opportune time.

Outside of my work, I’m an avid reader, currently enjoying digging into the lesser known parts of Robert Frost’s catalogue, but always open to suggestions! I’m a writer and I draw when I can, I played drums for a long time, but have been missing the motivation to pick the hobby back up again. I have retired from the moment from martial arts, but picked up fencing about a year ago and I love it. I’ve also gotten back into the gym again, this time with a better plan and a goal to get cut like a marble statue (I’m already pale enough for it).

I would say I am a kind person. I try to be, at least. I’m working on myself alot right now, and I think that’s something important part of the dynamic. That we help one another become our best selves and strive to be those versions of ourselves, together. And we also have lots of kinky se—

Physically, I’m slim but athletic. About 6’ according to my doctor (crazy how many guys shorter than me are all 6’) brown hair, and fairly clean cut.

——About me: kinky-er edition—— I will put it right up top, I have very little experience with the femdom dynamic. I do not want to make anyone think otherwise. This is pretty new to me, and while I’ve definitely been interested for awhile, and learned alot about safety in kink and the culture around it, that doesn’t make me physically experienced. However, I am eager to try.

I would identify as a sub/switch, though for the purposes of this particular ad, I’m focusing on the sub side of things. I am interested in both rougher styles of play, and the more gentle/sensual side of the experience? I want all parties involved to enjoy themselves, mutual satisfaction os a big focus for me, even if that means denying myself pleasure from time to time.

My fantasies are fairly broad, but I think the major focus would be the trappings of domination. I really like collar and leash, I like restraints, commands, pet-names and I absolutely melt when dirty talk gets involved. Some of my favorite experiences I’ve had so far have been just talking about fantasies and chatting with doms. It is the easiest way to get me all hot and shaky with excitement.

Beyond that, as I said, I’m open to try most things. I have tried butt stuff before by myself. I did not enjoy the dildo. The plug was fun once it was inside, but getting there was a literal pain in the ass. However, I can mark these up to inexperience, as I still think it’s hot, and I would be very open to try it again! I am more than happy to discuss more things I am open to explore, but I will reiterate; most things are open season. Except for the following!

——Spam’s Limits- Do Not Cross—— 1. Piss/shit: just not into that sort of thing 2. Feminization/sissy play: this leaves a weird taste in my mouth, and I wasn’t sure why for awhile until I watched a really good video essay on how it can feel exploitative of the trans experience and also ties to some tired racist stereotypes surrounding black men (not trying to yuck anyone’s yum, but safe to say this is not for me.) 3. Anything that leaves bad bruising/cutting/blood/etc.: I can take certain kinds of pain, and with others I am a big baby. Nobody wants to see me cry during a session. It will not be hot, even if that’s your thing. Trust me. 4. Body-writing: Just a weird turn-off for me.

——What Do I Want/What Do I Offer?——

Now is the part where I finally answer your questions about that stupid title I wrote! Almost.

So since I am quite new to this, I am feeling out the scene and I ask some level of patience and understanding that I’m not necessarily looking for a full-time dynamic or anything. I’m open to a dating partner, or just a friend with benefits, but the kinky stuff I would prefer to keep to a session-by-session basis. Play when we’re in the mood but have fun in other ways when “off the clock” so to speak.

Bear in mind, this does not mean I am not open to more lasting arrangements. I just don’t think I’m really ready for that quite yet, and I’ve seen enough posts from femdoms dealing with ghosting men treating them like kink dispensers.

I am happy to just remain online and play that way. I’m happy to meet in person and discuss what we both want and expect out of the dynamic, before agreeing upon boundaries and comfort, and setting up a date or a session. Hell, if we get along well, I’m even willing to travel. My job has pretty great vacation time, and I want to get out more, so I’m more than happy to have a good reason to do so! You may have guessed it by now, but I’m pretty open-minded when it comes to the nature of our potential relationship (or friends-with-benefits-ship) but I should probably bring up the title now, lest I get called-out for clickbait.

Some of you may have noticed, but paying rent is very expensive. New York is very expensive. Now I’m not looking for any sort of sugar-whatever situation, I can pay for the roof over my head, but it’s much easier to do so when you’re sharing that cost with someone else. And lets be real, who doesn’t like the idea of having a potential live-in sub?

Someone that you can come home from a long day of work and chill with, someone that will give you a massage or let you take out your frustrations at your boss in a healthy manner and beg for more. Isn’t that hot?

Now if that’s not your thing, then perhaps you need a gym buddy? Someone who’s always eager to work out, and loves having company to keep them accountable and keep the experience fun. The sort of person who you can sneak into the gym shower and put on their knees between your legs for a little extra “cool down.” The person you can watch sculpt their body to be more pleasant for you. Isn’t that hot?

Or maybe you want anything else. Thats also great! I have no problems with any sort of dynamic so long as we understand each-other and what we want/don’t want.

I will leave you with ways to reach me, and a few things to note.

I have had people try to blackmail/extort me in the past. While I am sure that you are not that type of person, please respect that I am a bit cagey about showing my face. Especially in cases where more racy photos and messages may be present. That doesn’t mean I’m not open to sending, I think that can be very fun, I just have my limits and ask they be respected.

I do not pay tribute, I won’t sub to your onlyfans, or anything like that. I have no disrespect for sex workers or anyone that does want this, but it’s not for me.

If you want to reach me, chat or DMs are best. Please provide the key word… Robin to prove you read my post. Why Robin? Well, I have no idea. If you also send along a reason why Robin works as a codeword I will give you a prize of your choosing.

Otherwise, tell me about yourself, ask questions, or just say hello! I’m hoping to talk to you all very soon!