The basics:

Hello! I’m a 22 year old transfem. I’m a dom-leaning switch, but I don't currently any outlet for my subby side. As a result, I’m looking for a dom! Texting is fine, but an interest in voice calls is non-negotiable. Hearing people’s voices is a massive part of both domming and being dommed for me. And I love using my own voice. I'm interested in trans women and cis women.

About myself:

I have somewhat limited experience getting dommed. I’ve had a couple moments but not really enough to “Figure myself out”. I’m actively looking to try new stuff and experience new things in general. As a result, I’m very open-minded.

Thanks to my experience with domming, I consider myself pertty good at the more general aspects of this kinda thing. Communication, not being passive, basically just making sure both people are enjoying themselves. I also consider myself pretty confident in general.

I'm hesitant to share much identifiable information, and as such I'd only want to share pictures once I've really gotten to know someone and if they're trustworthy.

Outside of kink, my hobbies include (But aren’t limited to): Tabletop, amateur voice acting, and animated stuff. I also consider myself extrovert-leaning. I love meeting new people and learning about them!

What I like:

Again, I’m interested in trying new things. So I’d love to hear whatever your kinks are, and I might be interested in trying them. In addition, nothing below is mandatory.

As for what I do know I like, I tend to like things focused around intense emotions. Both soft and hard stuff appeals to me as long as it focuses on putting me in a different headspace than normal. A lot of it is psychological, but I’ve had sexual reactions before too.

When it comes to softer stuff, I like the feeling of being taken care of and comforted, but also of being useful and following instructions obediently.

When it comes to harder stuff, I like things that induce high emotion. Fearplay is a great example, but I also love aggressive stuff like a dom raising their voice. Something about that kind of thing is extremely satisfying for me. Though when it comes to this sort of thing I’m still figuring out my limits, and I’d want us to take it slow.

I also like things that focus entirely on changing my headspace. Some good examples are: Petplay, littlespace/cgl/age regression, dollification, etc. I love being pushed into letting my guard down and being a bit more vulnerable and trusting, which can easily lead into either soft or hard stuff. I also really love "fake" soft-domming, as in domination that manipulatively presents itself as soft and sweet while focusing on harsh kinks or leading to something harsher.

Miscellanious interests: Feminization, forced non-verbal communication, roleplay (Still not text).

I also have a lovense! I’m still getting used to it, but I like anal and I like being “physically overpowered”, in a sense. And long-distance toys like that are the best way to do it online.

Who I'm looking for:

Although it’s not a hard requirement, I have a very heavy preference for feminine voices. If you’re not sure if you fit that category, it definitely doesn’t hurt to ask. For example, if you’re a trans girl, you don’t necessarily need to have completed voice training. You’d just need to show that you’ve put in some effort.

I need a sample of your voice before we talk about anything kinky, for several reason. (Avoiding catfishing, making sure we like each other’s voices beforehand, etc)

I’m ideally looking for a dom interested in something long-term. Of course, I would want us to get to know each other and see how much we click and how we feel. But longterm is generally my goal.

I really like people who show confidence and know what they want. Even if what they want is, like me, to just see where things go naturally.

As for what I’m definitely NOT interested in, I have no interest in cis men. (Including “Femboys”) If you’re either of those categories, and you message me, I’m gonna assume you haven’t actually read this, and I will probably just hit ignore. Enby’s and trans men are welcome to message, but whether we gel would be on a case-by-case basis.

Consent is very important to me, and I’d need to be pretty firm about that. As a result, I’m looking for someone who also takes it seriously.

If you're interested:

Send me a DM or message with a sample of your voice (Such as with Vocaroo), as well as what kind of thing you’re interested in. Or any questions you might have.

Might not respond immediately, but I will when I get the chance. Feel free to ask for a sample of me saying something specific, but there are more generic samples on my post history.