Hihii everyone :3 My name is Jarod, Iām a 26 y/o little from Omaha! Iām horrible at these so letās get to it:
Demographically, Iām a tall white dude (6ā3-6ā4) with strawberry blonde hair and heterochromia, which is a fancy way of saying the universe got quirky and decided my eyes have different colors.
I have a dad bod but Iāve been working out a lot recently and actually am pretty proud of the definition showing up in my shoulders and arms lately. I have a couple of pics of me on my profile! I didnāt always have a dad bod but I absolutely destroyed my back in a car crash when I was 21 and here we are lol. (Not paralyzed, everything works, just took a very long time to recover and Iām finally able to start doing what I love again)
Iām neurodivergent, too. Aside from my ADHD (medicated and functioning well) and that Iām an HSP (meaning my emotional and physical senses are extremely heightened,) l also have AV synesthesia which means I see colors in music.
Now that the scary stuff that would turn people away is listed, if youāre still reading, onto the fun parts!
Im an RN in a pediatric hospital, specializing in emergency medicine, and Iām wanting to continue my education. Iāve always had a passion for healthcare and being able to help those less fortunate, and this job gives me a sense of purpose and fulfillment that I really need. Because of the high intensity, stressful nature of my work, itās one of the reasons why Iām a little. Being able to turn the brain off and have someone else in charge is such a massive need for me because my job really takes it out of me sometimes, and Iāve seen a lot of things not a lot of people would feel comfortable reading about, so I wonāt share. Being smol helps forget about that, gives me a safe place to be my carefree self, and is a great distraction that allows myself to decompress before I have to do it all over again.
I am pretty submissive by nature as well. My job is an exception, but it is so draining mentally because itās really not who I am. Iām shy, introverted, and need structure and guidance to thrive. I have anxiety in crowds and being able to hide behind my person as my hand is held and things get taken care of is a dream.
As for hobbies, I love music. I play 3 instruments and sing, as well as write my own music. I lived in Atlanta for a bit and was part of the well known Atlanta Master Chorale there. I listen to rock/alternative/indie/punk and some EDM, pop, jazz, classical, I mean itās really all good. Iām a huge nerd with this kind of stuff, and my HSP/neurodivergence lets me experience frisson with music on a stronger level than most. I love to mountain bike, hike, collect rocks, as well as cook and bake. My dad owned a restaurant in Cali before I was born and taught me a lot, which is cool.
Whatās pretty cool about me is that one of my ancestors was famous, or infamous rather, and has a book and movie about him. (Can prod a bit in the DMs haha, donāt wanna share here for privacy). My parents are also a Scottish Lord and Lady, but not the ābuy a piece of land and claim to be royalty,ā type. I have a direct bloodine connection to Clan MacDougall and the MacDougall family, so lots of things to talk about!
I love being talked to as well so please please feel free to tell me all about you!
Onto the kink stuff:
Iām into: cg/l, md/lb, dd/lg, petplay, TPE, somno (receiving), facesitting, denial, bondage, shibari, edging, exhibitionism, public play, s/m, watersports, forced regression, abdl, and more.
Iām a HUGE slut for praise and positive affirmations, inside and outside the bedroom. I will melt into a puddle every time. So also a praise kink lol.
Iām curious about: chastity, overstimulation, sensory deprivation
Hard limits are: blood, scat, extreme pain, pegging, anal play (there is trauma behind these so this is NON NEGOTIABLE, sorry.) knife play, sissification, degradation. So basically all the major kinks that stereotypically come with being a male sub ig, but Iām either not into them or have trauma behind them. If you message me, leave an ambulance emoji in your message so I know you read this far!
Iām looking for a soft, gentle mommy if you couldnāt tell by the kinks and limits. One who I can look into their eyes as they hold my chin and just feel the love, vulnerability, and sense of security in. Someone who isnāt afraid to take charge, who loves the protective role, who babies me and treats me as their one and only.
However you treat me, I will do the exact same for you. I love seeing the positive impact I have on people, whether thatās making them smile, giving them encouragement, making them feel loved and cared for just as much as they do me. Itās such a fuzzy and fulfilling feeling and I love it so much. I am looking for a LTR, which means I cannot stress enough how much I want someone who can communicate. I fully understand that my domme is my girlfriend and partner first, with her needs and wants just as important and valid as my own. Let me take care of you when youāve had a rough day, when youāre sick, let me hold you when you need it and take control when you canāt. At the end of the day, weāre both human. Prioritizing the bond we have, and the safety and well being of each other, is more important than you feeling the need to repress feelings out of fear of a negative response.
I am a hopeless romantic who falls too fast and trusts too quick. I wear my heart on my sleeve and sometimes have trouble expressing emotions because of how intense I feel them, so I ramble a lot and having someone be able to empty the brain and understand me is a dream. The desire to make them happy, make them feel loved and safe, and be able to feel that back is unimaginably strong.
Thereās so, so much more about me that I havenāt typed here. If you read this far, it means a lot and Iām glad I kept your interest.
Please be around the ages of 22-30, if youāre very close to these please reach out anyways, id be happy to meet you. Nothing against anyone, but Iām not interested in trans women, men, or femme men. Itās just a preference, please respect that.
I hope I caught your attention and look forward to meeting you. Thanks for reading this!! :)
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