About Me, Future Plans, and What I’m Looking For:

Hello. I’m a 25-year-old man living in Mesa, Arizona. I work remotely as a software developer and I can live anywhere in the US. I’m willing to travel and relocate for the right person. If I were to meet someone highly compatible who lives in another country, I’d find a job at a company that allows me to work elsewhere. I don’t want distance to be an obstacle.

For hobbies, I enjoy good food/trying new restaurants, and quality TV/movies/books. I particularly enjoy animated works. Studio Ghibli tends to be a highlight when it comes to animated movies. I used to write from time to time, and I’d like to try my hand at it again someday. My primary hobby is video games, with action-adventure and RPG being two of my favorite genres. The Zelda series and Stardew Valley are top-tier. I’d like to go out every now and then (e.g., check out a museum or botanical garden, go on a walk/hike, etc.) once I’m out of AZ. It’s way too hot and dry here 🥵. Regarding appearance, I’m 5’9, 125lb, and Caucasian/German (brown hair, blue eyes, and long eyelashes) with a standard physique. I try to keep myself looking nice. Personality-wise, I’m rather introverted.

I’m hoping we can start as friends and see where the relationship organically takes us. It would be wonderful to have gaming as a mutual interest, but that isn't a necessity. Some dealbreakers for me are smoking, being a picky eater, and being an irresponsible animal owner. The cats in my post history were from my childhood; I don't own any pets. I’m an atheist and consider myself to be independent/no party politically. I lean more left than right in general, though. Naturally, we’ll want to be on a similar wavelength concerning worldviews. I’m only interested in monogamy. For age, somewhere between 20 to 33 would be ideal. I could maybe go a bit over, but younger would probably feel uncomfortable. I have physical preferences like everyone else, but the main thing is putting a reasonable amount of effort into appearance (and health, by extension).

One factor that’s important to me is being DINK. If you're a remote worker, that's even better. Not to say that I’d necessarily be against the idea of someone taking care of me in that way, but I figure that’s probably a stretch 🤣. I try to be independent/self-sufficient and have long-term goals for the future, but I’m definitely not the most traditionally masculine man out there. As far as I can tell, I’m a bit more sensitive/in touch with my emotions relative to other men, but maybe that’s par for the course with members of this community. I want someone who loves/accepts those parts of me and is OK with taking the lead on decisions when needed. Kindness/empathy, intelligence, and ambition/assertiveness are all qualities I find highly attractive in a woman.

Sexual/Relationship Preferences:

I haven’t had the opportunity to explore a femdom relationship with a compatible partner, so I’d say that I’m still discovering that aspect of myself to a certain extent. I'm 100% sub (not in a bratty way) and I don't see that changing. As I alluded to earlier, I’m also interested in role reversal and FLR, but I'd would need to explore that with a partner to work out the specifics. Some things I'm interested in are breast play, pegging/prostate stimulation, milking, facesitting, bondage, and CNC. I like receiving a lot of affection in and out of the bedroom and I'm happy to give those things as well. I want something built on mutual love and respect.

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d be a good match. I’m willing to send pictures or video chat privately.