I'm a 34 year old bisexual switch living on the Northside of Chicago. I’m reasonably experienced with kink, but a minority of that experience has been as a submissive. Which is a shame, because I love it. I'd love to meet a domme who would be interested in helping me rectify that.

About me:

I’m happy to share pics, but I'm 5’8,” 160 lbs, and I have an average build. I'm well-endowed, if you find that relevant. I have short, wavy dark-brown hair and brown eyes. I have a strong brow and jawline w/ a small nose. I have very expressive eyebrows (they do most of my emoting for me) and medium-full lips. I usually keep my facial hair trimmed to stubble.

In terms of interests, I’m into video games (mostly RPGs because I’m a huge nerd), reading (shitty sci fi and fantasy, but also poetry and literary fiction), and (as long as it’s warm) swanning along the lakefront and generally exploring the city. I've gotten very into cooking, and it's one of my favorite things to do for/with people I'm close to.

As far as kinks go, I'm into sensory play, restraints, light breath play, light impact play, anal play, pegging, facesitting, cumplay, and group play. I'm into exploring just about anything that doesn't involve blood, scat, vomit, illegality, or extreme levels of pain.

About you:

My biggest ask is that you're either in Chicago or visit often. I'm not especially interested in online play, and if you're not in the city itself or able to get there regularly, it's unlikely we'll meet.

Otherwise I simply ask that you have some level of overlap in terms of both kinks and sfw interests. I'd like us to be people who enjoy one another's company both in and out of the bedroom, and enjoy spending time with each other whether or not it involves us doing depraved, wonderful things to one another that can't be discussed in polite society.

I'm STI-free and test regularly. I'm happy to be contacted by either chat or message. Say hi if I've piqued your interest - I (eagerly) await your message