A bit about me: 6'2", slim/athletic build, hazel eyes. I have some pictures posted on my profile to get a gist of my vibe!

By day I'm a software developer in the medical field. By nights and weekends I love exploring the depths of what geek-dom has to offer, staying active, and secretly being a lot more goth than my dress code would suggest. I can be an incorrigible sass-a-frass and appreciate someone who can match wits with me. Don't worry, I know when to push buttons and when to behave!

I have a pretty big range of hobbies. None of them are deal breakers but I'd love to find someone who shares at least a few!

Getting outside for a good hike, and earning the views from some mountain peak is a great use of any sunny afternoon.

Board games and video games, both cooperative and competitive. Whether I'm leading the armies of Mordor to a crushing victory over your feeble free people's armies, or we're working together to bake a cake in Overcooked.

Live music gives me life! I love alt-metal, pop-punk, or just about anything I can dance to. Looking forward to a summer filled with shows both near and far.

I also really enjoy all types of crafting. Whether it's a Hash-Slinging-Slasher night light, or the Majora's Mask mirror shield I usually have a bunch of project ideas in the works to make and proudly decorate my home with.

Kink-wise I identify as a sub leaning switch, who would be perfectly happy without ever switching. If you're strictly a top that's great! Want to mix it up occasionally, that's good too! Happiest closer to "lifestyle" than "only in the bedroom".

I'm not in need of an actual mother or a therapist - I want to be your capable right hand! Your loyal henchman, strong and loyal and happy to be of service. You chart the course, I'll man the oars!

Much more into the "BD" than the "SM", but I always enjoy exploring and experimenting. A small sample of things I love are body worship, physical bondage, non-permanent chastity and begging. Some hard limits are heavy impact play, anything with needles or knives, and sounding. If we click we can talk more about it later; I'd rather know more about who the heck you *are* first!

I'm looking for someone who is at least a little interested at the thought of any of the above. Someone who can match my energy - both physically, as well as the mental energy of bantering. And finally, someone close enough physically that I can actually see you in person is ideal, but open to a bit of distance if there's a reasonable plan for moving things IRL!

If that's you, I'm looking forward to hearing from you! Ask me what crafts I'm working on. Challenge me to a game of tennis. Agree to dance your heart out with me at a show. Consent to getting your butt kicked at a game of your own choosing! Or ask me something completely different because I'm not the boss of you!

P.S. If you send me SpongeBob memes I'm effectively already yours.