Hello there!

Please, call me Val. This isn't my first time posting here and now, after some encouragement from a friend, I'm finally giving it another shot.

A little bit about me: I'm a quiet suburbanite and share a small flat with my cat. I work at a nearby mall. Very much an introvert and often feel like I don't quite fit in, but once I connect with someone I'm talkative, expressive and very affectionate. I'm passionate about D&D, storytelling, art/DIY, and birdwatching. I like cozy nights in, exploring nature, tea, thunderstorms and spooky stuff.

Physically, I'm 5'5" and around 120 lbs (thin with some squish), with fluffy auburn hair and blue eyes. I'm a trans man, pre-everything and still fairly feminine. Please be okay with that. I want to transition eventually, but it's just not an option for me at the moment. I have a high voice and a German accent. Here's me!

When it comes to BDSM/kink I'm neither super experienced nor totally clueless. I've dabbled in it, both online and offline, but never found the right person for more in-depth exploration. I need a deeper connection and shared interests outside of kink first. I'm looking for both a close friend (or even romantic partner) and a Domme.

Due to my limited long-term experience I'm a bit of a wildcard as a sub. I have been called a brat before and tend to be fairly playful when I get more comfortable, but I can also behave if preferred :) I hope to find someone to really explore and grow with. I'm more comfortable discussing specific kinks in private, but to summarize, I enjoy both praise and some degradation, light(-ish) pain and certain elements of pet play and primal play.

What else? Well, first off, please be over 23! Ideally, you live close enough to meet up in the future. Ideally. I know the chances of finding someone near me are low, but it's important that you're at least up for regular calls/real-time chats. I get on well with people who are creative, nerdy and not overly serious. I value clear communication and empathy.

My previous ad is still up and might offer some additional insights. Please don't hesitate to say hi if anything here caught your eye! Until then, thank you so much for reading and take care!

Hope to hear from you soon :)

Val