Hej folks,

Here I am, a subby dude looking for my person. Without further ado:

Me

• Age: 30
  
• Location: Sweden, Stockholm area
  
• Appearance: Average body, healthy weight, not a lot of muscles. I'm the "goes to the gym but only for maintenance" type. I'm happy to share verification pictures in private, after a conversation.
• Language: English. I'm learning svenska, but that needs a lot of time in the oven still.

Personality-wise, I'm nerdy, creative, open-minded, empathetic, respectful. In my working life I'm an engineer working in green energy. Otherwise, I have a ton of interests and not enough time. I'm in a book club. I love films. I love analyses of films. I'm learning drawing, sometimes I write short stories, sometimes I go bouldering, sometimes I roleplay. Politics, the environment and social justice are important issues to me, and hopefully to you too.

What I'm looking for:

The ~dream~ would be to find a long-term partner who is also compatible in terms of kinks/power dynamics. Failing that, someone to build a d/s relationship together. Either way, I want to get to know you, and submit to you, the real you. I have a fondness for nerdy and opinionated women, but I find that almost everyone is interesting when they aren't afraid to show themselves. So please do!

Age-wise, I'm interested in people around 23-37, but can be flexible depending on the person. I'm not interested in an online only relationship, so you have to live reasonably close to me. Otherwise, just don't be conservative.

My kinks

Power exchange, personal service, body worship, orgasm control, roleplay, bondage are all things I'm interested it. This is not an exhaustive list; as always, what's hot depends on the other person and our particular dynamic. I'm very open to try new stuff with a trusted partner. My preference is for gentle domination, but something more intense is on the cards. Again, with a trusted partner and good communication, lots of doors are open.

Limits: Scat, blood, illegal stuff, stuff that marks (cuts, etc.), cuckoldry, age play, "hard" humiliation as opposed to playful. Generally the harder kinks.

Ok but do I have experience?

No, not really. I've had a tiny bit of experience but it was online only. That said, I've done my research, I've been in kink communities (both online and offline), have kinky friends, and generally consider myself reasonably knowledgeable, certainly enough to practice kink safely and with consideration for my theoretical partner.

Aaaand that's it. This ended up longer than I expected, so thanks for reading all that if you came that far. I honestly appreciate it, especially knowing how many ads like these get posted every day. If you're interested, feel free to send a PM with an intro about yourself, what exactly you are looking for, and something that you're currently passionate about (a piece of media, a topic, your pet, a wikipedia rabbit hole, anything)

Have a great day!