Hi there!

This will be a bit of a specific personal ad, but I feel like I want to get particular about a dynamic I'm interested in-

I'm a submissive male who's been interested in ponyplay for a long time- I'm also a reasonably seasoned kinkster and have been in touch with the fetish and petplay communities for a while. I've been a pony at many irl kink events and a few pride parades.

Ponyplay's been a big interest of mine since I saw photos and art of it being performed, and I love the way it looks and the power dynamic that comes with it.

For those who aren't familiar with ponyplay- ponyplay is a type of bdsm roleplay which involves one participant dressing and acting (or being made to act) in a equine manner, often involving some kind of restraints.

Physically I'm 5'11", blonde, medium-short hair, average build, sliding slightly into athletic/slim. I have a desk job but workout 4-5 times a week.

I'm very into gear as an aspect of play- I have a lot of my own gear that I've accrued over time, including a high end harness and mask. Photos available on request ♥

I'm hoping to meet a lady between 23-42 who wants to explore a pony and trainer dynamic in a playmate sense. I'd be looking for someone who would be able to meet up and play in person. I'm in the south U.K. so can travel around the UK, and could be able to travel within Europe for meetups with the right person.

I am not interested in all fours riding and primarily do ponyplay standing upright- I am looking for an arrangement that more emulates equestrian training that retains the elegance/power of trained horse movement. Think things like longing, cart riding, dressage, log hauling with a healthy dose of bdsm added to the mix. (Rebecca Wilcox's book 'The Human Pony' or the site 'Cpony.com' have great info on the kind of play I'm interested in)

I can be comfortable with a sexual or a nonsexual play relationship, depending on chemistry.

I'm looking for someone who prefers to dominate with assertive protocol, praise, teasing, enjoys creating predicaments/ pushing for obedience using a mixture of seduction, mischievousness and authority.

I'm not looking for someone who prefers sadism and/or degradation. I enjoy pain as part of power exchange or sensation play, but not for it's own sake. I also do not enjoy being called names or being belittled. However I do enjoy being manhandled and physically tugged around/ subjugated ♥

In terms of other kinks I'm a latex enthusiast, enjoy bondage of all forms, impact, other forms of petplay, facesitting, foot & boot worship, edging, e-stim, and a lot of other kinks besides, but I won't take up too much more space here, suffice to say there's plenty to discuss!

Outside of my kink life I live independently & work as an IT professional. I enjoy a couple of different niche sports- HEMA and Parkour and I also like swimming. I play games and am usually up for conversations on a few different popular culture touchstones- Red Dwarf, Star Wars, Doctor Who, and some more niche ones: His Dark Materials, The Adventure Zone, Helluva Boss.

I am polyamorous and have other relationships in my life including some other playmates and an enbyfriend. They are aware and consenting that I play with others.

Have a wonderful day, I hope that I might hear from you!

Diawl x