Hello ladies, I am a professor, 40, 6'2" and fit. I am looking for a mistress. I have always been turned on by femdom; and I am burned by intense fantasies about it. I was hoping I could control it as I age, but to no avail. Here is an example "stream of consciousness" that is going on when my mind drifts in that direction:
I am mainly turned on by the domination aspect, the body worship, the humiliation of getting down and kissing and worshiping your feet, being used as your oral slave, your sex toy, worshipping your ass for your pleasure, preparing you for your date while being denied in a chastity cage. "Oh wow! That skirt is too short to go out mistress" and then I am told to shut up, kneel and start licking your asshole clean while you put on your make up and lecture me on the importance of a clean asshole on a date.

I am very turned on by stylish/rich ladies. Very very rich. I fantasize being kept as pet/slave by a very rich lady in her mansion. It reinforces the superiority/inferiority complex. She would dress up every day, and I suffer in my chastity cage just looking at her walk around, ordering the maids, etc. Then she summons me to worship her feet in her stylish new heels, while she is sitting on a sofa worth a year's salary, sipping tea and gossiping with her girlfriends, whom they are all used to a pathetic slave of two groveling at her feet. Occasionally I am ordered to clean the girlfriends' shoes.

Once they are done gossiping, she takes me to her shoe closet, an enormous room filled with all the thousand pairs of shoes she has. My job is to worship and clean each and every shoes, while she goes out with her girlfriends. She will be monitoring me via the multiple cameras in the room. The punishment if she finds me slacking is unbearable, so I diligently do as I was told. Each shoe brings a memory. The shoe collection is enormous. The money spent on it could have fed an entire poor village for a year, but she just likes to flaunt her wealth like this. She wears each for a couple days and then it is on to a new one. She loves buying and wearing heels, posing in them for worship, torturing her foot slaves in a new one every day...
Otherwise, I am a busy professor. The word salad you just read is what these fantasies do to me when the flame is lit :) I also make femdom AI art if you are interested.