More or less as the title implies, I am a kinky gentlemen/guy seeking a kinky woman, maybe even a dominant woman for a longer term relationship of sorts -

As far as the basics go, I am single, no children, not/never been married and I have my own place and obviously would likely prefer to host and accommodate (My comfort zone so to speak) However, I may travel for the right person, or might in fact need too, depending.

As far as my local neck of the woods go (Also being an active member of/on fetlife) The kink/BDSM scene seems rather bleak, so hence the reason for writing this ad -

Physically, I am around 6'2/210lb, well groomed, shaved (Bald) and sometimes sporting a goatee and fairly attractive facially. My cock is 6/7 inches erect, a nice shape and girthy, but I am a "grower not a shower" as they say (thus not so large when flaccid of course) However, I am not perfect, I have a few stretch marks here and there and my teeth are not perfectly straight. However, overall I am a well maintained package for my age and I also value cleanliness and hygiene very strongly -

I am not what you would consider to look at in the streets to be submissive or of a submissive nature in general, Just a decent looking bloke (Bald, shaved and sporting a goatee occasionally) who carries himself well with a bit of an edge/urban education you might say, so my interests in submission are more bedroom based although the majority of my experience intimately speaking is within a role akin to a dominant (My bread and butter so to speak) As odd and as contradictory as this might sound, I have yet to meet a woman with a passion for reflections of domination as far as the bedroom goes, and without a suitable dance partner, well, you don't have a dance, so though I do have interests in assuming a sub/service role within the bedroom, I have yet to meet someone to explore and nurture this with and whom may enjoy such a situation as much if not more than I could do.

I interpret subbing personally as serving, providing an intimate service to and for another, my pleasure or sexual gratification should not be priority or even really matter. So to me personally, this implies a need for chastity and/or to be chastised during the providing of pleasure (Oral sex and variations of are something that I am interested in) Perhaps the option to pleasure myself during such an intimate activity might be an added reward and/or minor humiliation. But more than anything else, a situation like this must arouse/enrich the woman equally if not more so than myself - So I am looking for a slightly sadistic and/or strong willed woman who genuinely enjoys this type of dynamic and who might know how best to nurture it and/or gain a great amount of pleasure out of it.

I have many different interests and fetishes as far as BDSM and the bedroom goes (Though very limited practical experience in real life) But I will save those interests (Including my more vanilla/conventional side) for private conversation should I actually engage with someone relatively local to myself.

Other than for the above, thank you for reading, and my DM's are open.

Thank you.