Looking for the kind of thing where to the rest of the world we're an ordinary cute couple but as soon as the doors are closed it becomes very apparent who is wearing the pants.

I'd say I'm generally a switch but I'm looking for something more on the submissive side with a partner who very much enjoys some in-good-fun bullying and making their partner squirm. I like pretty much all the "normal" bdsm activities though in particular I really like edging, orgasm control & denial, cutesy wholesome degredation, fake sympathy, being mentally fucked with, power play, and praise. Goes without saying that great cuddles and aftercare are also a plus. If you're also a switch my dom interests are the same! GGG for the most part so tell me what you're into!

Not into sissification, forced bi, age play, findom, being a doormat, anything permanently damaging physically or otherwise, and not super interested in anything anal related but am open to being talked into it.

I'm also interested in exploring hotwife/cuck play more. I've had past partners who very slutty (in the empowering way) and getting teased and hearing about their exploits was a big turn on for me. I'd love to help you pick out a sexy outfit and take you out for a fancy dinner before before dropping you off at your next fuckdate. Knowing what I'm missing out on is so much fun as is telling you how much you deserve to have allllll the attention you want.

Numbers and stats about me if that's important to you: 5'11, white, ddf, size queen approved, have my own apartment, very fit, can drive, not poly. A couple anonymized pictures of me for a rough idea of what I look like https://imgur.com/a/lSz36LI Only looking for something in person.

In day to day life I really prioritize going out and doing the things I enjoy and find meaning in so I have a pretty wide range of hobbies and interests. I love working out and sporty activities (and appreciate partners who prioritize their health too!) and I also love live music, cooking (especially if it's for you!), the occasional game, anime, and a bunch of other things! When the weather is nice I love to get out to the beach and occasionally the woods. Being excited about hobbies and interests is personality wise very hot to me so I'd love to hear about what you like! For work I'm an engineer that can mostly be found wfh though occasionally am spotted in the city.

If any of this interests you feel free to send a message! "Hey" isn't a good conversation starter so tell me a little bit about you and what you like, ask me a question, or tell me about something cool in your life you're looking forward to! Not interested in talking to men or pro-dommes.