Hi hi!

Hope you had a lovely Monday!

I am an AFAB Enby person (my pronouns are they/them) looking to make a new connection in the community! I have a lot of experience as a top and bottom (13 years in the kink community offline) with a lot of stories to share! Hoping to find the right someone to make some new stories with!

I have 0 interest in just being a kink dispenser for another person - I am not going to rush into anything and I am certainly not going to be someone’s masturbation fodder. If you need someone to get you off, there are plenty of other places for that!

I do not rush into things - I am interested in being friends as well as playing if we have a good connection. If you want a dynamic to start within days of meeting each other, you are best looking somewhere else. I will not play without proper negotiation and I need to be able to have conversations with you outside of kink in order to be interested.

A little about me:

• passionate, creative, and driven - I’ve always got some project on the go
• poly, partnered, and happy! - I am very happily in a relationship and this is not going to affect or change that. I do not talk to people who do not have open communication with their partners about their activities online.
• I love to work in myself and learn new things! I’m always reading something interesting and I stick to a pretty strict routine - I’m not going to be up half the night and I’m not always endlessly available.

Who I’m looking for:

• a submissive or switch between the ages of 30-45 with some experience in kink
• time zone doesn’t really matter but if you’re closer to EST we will likely have similar schedules
• someone willing to take their time - I will not be rushing into anything at all after a few days!
• someone who is willing to have conversations that are not just about kink! I want to be friends as well - I feel like it makes for the best play if we are to progress that far
• someone willing to be honest, open, and communicate with me. I do not tolerate people who aren’t willing to have the hard talks and work as a team.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, feel free to send me a DM!

Looking forward to hearing from you soon!