Note: I posted a month ago and have received over 450 messages, the vast majority of those ignored my requirements, ghosted, or turned out to be non-suitable, so I have tweaked my post over this time and have decided to re-post it in it's more refined form. I am still open to messages as long as this post is up; please read my whole post before you message me!

It's been a long week month for me and I would like some company from somebody who is emotionally mature, able to hold a conversation beyond demanding I fulfil their sexual desires, and might be willing to offer some of themselves and availability for me instead. This is for somebody who is interested in being the one to serve me, instead of being focused only on what they will get out of me.

I am a verified dominant who is attracted to politically-left submissive men who are slim or toned (though I don't tend to be attracted to people who obsess over their muscle mass or their body), and below the age of 30. I am open to people of all heights, ethnicity etc. I am obviously kink-friendly and open to most kinks, with a focus on cum control, edging, and pleasure. I feel I'm open enough to satisfy the kinks and fetishes of a submissive however I can.

You will be based in Europe for timezone purposes and you will also be experienced in femdom and online dynamics - I'm sorry, but too many people cum and decide "it's not for them", or can't deal with their feelings of shame or self-hate, and I don't have capacity to deal with that over and over and over and over. It's too draining.

I don't respond well to toxic-masculinity or willful ignorance; I just like normal, good-hearted boys who are able to hold and maintain a conversation, and enjoy showing themselves off with pictures and videos for my entertainment.

I'm a bit of a nerdy, D&D playing, rock-music liking person, who honestly just likes to relax after a long day and have light-hearted conversations and sometimes get slutty. I tend to be more supportive/gentle/affectionate as a domme, with elements of assertiveness. I like to communicate clearly and directly, instead of beating around the bush, expecting the same from a partner, and I often go out of my way to communicate my appreciation.

I am looking for longer-term, online-only things (due to my busy personal circumstances). If you've ever ghosted somebody before, please don't message me; I'm asking you to not put me through that. I am also not looking for somebody who is sexually active or actively dating in real life because that puts us on an automatic time limit and limits how closely we can bond.

I will be more likely to reply to you if your account isn't new and you have a comment/post history, so I can see you're a real human and not just using a throwaway account. If you've messaged me before and I have politely declined as we're not a match, it's probably not worth messaging me again.

If you think you might like to chat with me for a bit, please send me a Reddit Chat and:

• Tell me about you, where you're from, and how old you are
• Tell me about your previous experience in online dynamics
• Tell me something interesting about yourself or a secret nobody else knows
• Include two pictures of yourself, where one includes your face, and one is NSFW

If you do not give me exactly what I've asked for, you will almost definitely not get a reply. If you do not feel comfortable giving me what I have asked for, kindly please do not message me; I respect your boundaries and but we are not compatible.

For balance, here is a slightly suggestive picture of me with my nipples censored, because I'm classy.

I probably won't be able to reply to everyone or at least not straight away, so please be patient. I will at least try to reply if you have put effort into your message and otherwise meet my criteria/requests, even if to say I don't think we're compatible.

Thanks for reading, again :)