Yes, it's true, I'm only slightly sophisticated. I can still be rather uncouth and boorish when it comes to my sense of humor. Perhaps that's where you come in with ideas for behavior correction? How shall you curb this coarse tongue of mine?

I have some experience with a D/s dynamic in the past but it has been several years since I would say I was in a relationship where that was a primary focus. It's certainly not easy finding this kind of thing on a dating app. I have tried code words in profiles and that usually leads to confusion. I have tried slowly introducing submissive behavior into existing relationships via offering foot massages, insisting that yes it's fine if only you get off, and expressing my satisfaction with doing the cleaning and cooking. I've even tried the direct conversation route and received a puzzled look. It's not easy being submissive but submissive is what I be. I've had past success via the internet so why not dip into that well again.

I only recently learned exactly what gfd is and it clicked in my head that this would be my ideal type of D/s relationship. Gentle, caring, and loving but also firm and strict. I would prefer something where the dynamic didn't exist overtly outside of the bedroom or house. It could still be there but with an added degree of subtlety. I'm first and foremost seeking a relationship involving honesty, effective communication, and emotional availability. We'd date, visit museums, go out to restaurants, engage in cultural activities, etc. like any typical couple. However, once we're back home our dynamic would fully emerge. Like I said, I enjoy cleaning and cooking, but also tasks, lists, rules, pleasing, and chores. A queen needn't be bothered with such mundane frivolities. Let me handle everything and free you up to enjoy yourself and plot how to use me for your amusement. Give you more time to ponder in what new ways I can serve you and make you happy. Think of me as a boyfriend/domestic servant/personal assistant/organic pleasure device. I'm happy to discuss specific kinks and boundaries once we talk a bit and connect.

I'm an independent person for the most part. Have a bit of a salt and pepper thing going on with my hair and beard. I'm tall, educated, cultured, witty, patient, polite, and progressive. I have a nice job that affords me the ability to travel for a few days when I want so an initial LDR arrangement would be fine. I'm currently in Chicago but not rooted here. I'm single and seeking a monogamous relationship.