Hello!

I'm here looking to meet a woman and chat about life, hopes, dreams, and hopefully find my person in the process! I am not looking to jump straight into a committed relationship, but I am dating with intention and I'd like to meet someone who is willing to slowly go in that direction.

About Me

Personal facts and Physical Appearance

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT company in Portland, Oregon. I live alone and have one pet in my home (A cat). I'm 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, short brown hair, broad shouldered and stocky. I'm on the chubby side. But I don't plan on being that way much longer. I stay active and am making tangible progress.

I can provide pictures of myself on request.

Personality

Personality wise I'd say I'm even tempered and care-free most of the time. I love to joke around and be silly. I love conversation and am reasonably intelligent, or at least I'd like to think so. I am honest, loyal, dutiful, kind, very affectionate and cuddly, and a people pleaser. Sometimes to a fault. I'm nowhere near perfect, but I have room to grow and I'm always striving to be a better version of myself.

Interests

I'm a huge nerd but I'd like to think I carry it well. My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), tinkering (fixing computers, radios, or any other electronics) movies/TV (mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi, also serious drama,) going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

What I bring to the table

I feel like I would make a very good partner and I am ready to give it my all. I am a great listener and love going out of my way to make my partners feel wanted, needed, loved, and appreciated. I want to be somebody's rock and make them feel safe and secure. A lover and a protector.

I am also very handy around the house. I know how to fix a lot of things and I generally like being helpful. And since I'm tall I am very good at reaching for things on high shelves and am very good at opening jars ;).

Work I've Done for Myself

I am currently in the middle of and have made major lifestyle changes and I am taking an active effort to improve my physical health and wellbeing. I've been making an effort to walk and eat healthier every day and have made tangible progress. I don't plan on stopping this any time soon either.

I regularly go to therapy and am continually working on being emotionally self aware. My primary love languages are physical touch/words of affirmation and my attachment style is Anxious/Preoccupied. I've learned secure attachment skills to help mitigate the latter and am constantly working on being better version of myself. If you have questions or concerns about either of these let me know.

About You and Us

At the end of the day love and partnership are the things I want the most. And I'll do my best to describe what that might look like between us.

I'd love to meet someone caring, affectionate, kind, and loving who likes taking charge when the need arises. She has a way of looking at me that instantly breaks down my walls and let's me know I'm safe with a smile that is only for me. She understands that I need to fall apart sometimes and is there to catch me when I do. And I want her to feel all of the same things for and with me as well.

Together we're a perfect compliment to each other. We know what the other needs without words and give ourselves to each other every day without judgement or pretense. We allow each other to be the person we feel like we need to be and we create space where we're free to explore those facets of ourselves.

We share hobbies and plan time together just for us to stay connected, But also do our own thing when we need to. We make sure to nurture and support each other's interests, We show enthusiasm and pride in each other's successes, and reassurance and empathy with our failures. And no matter what happens we know that the other person will be there and be a sanctuary.

Preferred Dynamic Style

Ideally I'd want a partner who is interested in Gentle Femdom (GFD) Or Mommy Dom who is open to extending the dynamic outside of the bedroom. Whether or not our relationship extends out into full FLR territory would be a discussion between us.

If you wish to know more specific information about my interests and limits please ask me directly, But I will say that they fall within what most people would consider to be "standard" for a submissive into gentle femdom.

Thanks for reading! If you have any questions or if you're interested please let me know and send me a chat!! I look forward to hearing from you!