Hi everyone,

As you may have guessed my name is Paul. I'm seeking a connection with a gentle domme who wants to take control of an inexperienced sub.

I'm very new to the scene in terms of dating and don't have a whole lot of experience with dating full stop. I am neurodivergent and I am learning how best to manage this. It means sometimes I'm not as fast at responding to messages, so that I can contemplate if the first thing that jumps into my head is the best thing.

I'm not 100% sure what I am into in terms of fetishes and kinks but I am very much open to exploring most things at least one. I have hard limits at cuckolding, financial domination, anything public or exposure type things. However some of the things I know I like:

Chastity Teasing Pegging Tasks Being controlled Feminization

I am definitely into more gentle dommes, I don't mind being punished when it's required, I just don't like all the humiliation and bullying dommes. I am not necessarily looking for a "mommy domme" but if that opportunity arrives, I would definitely say yes mommy.

I would like to get to know my domme and ensure we click before we reveal too much personal information or perhaps meet. I am looking for real and genuine connection.

I should add I am overweight and also I am autistic/adhd. I know this is a deal breaker for some. However I am working extremely hard to rectify this problem in my life in terms of my weight and figuring out how my autism affects my communication. If you'd like to help me with this, punishments and rewards, that would super duper helpful 🤪

Anyway, I do hope you will consider me and feel free to ask any questions.