I’m tall, skinny but still fit, have long hair, and I’m bad at writing intros to posts. I’m quite active and do various outdoor sports but I also like to cuddle up on the couch and read or play some games. Looking for someone who is also active and somewhat fit, in a roughly similar age range, and who lives in a similar timezone. It’s important to me that the vibe between us feels right and that there is some level of friendship.

When it comes to kinks, I’m going to list a few things I’ve enjoyed in the past. The list isn’t exhaustive and most of these aren’t essential. Figuring out what we both enjoy is part of the fun!

• Pleasuring you: I want to make you feel good and please you. Whatever that entails, especially online, is something we’d have to figure out together. I’m not looking for anyone with no ideas of what they want from this on their own.
• Anal: I love being plugged, having my ass played with, fingering or fucking myself with a toy, and so on. The feeling makes me melt. This would be a must in some way.
• Orgasm Control: I would enjoy for you to control when and how I come. Not so much into time-based or longer term denial.
• Dressing up/making myself pretty: not as a kink on its own but as part of or preparation for other play, or just casually.
• Bondage/restraints/predicaments: Somewhat limited in what one can do safely by oneself but I do enjoy restraints of some sort. Predicaments are also great.

While I’m not opposed to exchanging pictures in general, it might take some time to establish enough trust and I will not share pics that give away identifiable info. Same goes for voice chat. I’d prefer this to be relatively text-focused in the beginning.

Limits and dealbreakers

• Face pics, anything involving others, anything that could compromise our privacy or allows identification, permanent bruises/damage, blood, knife play, medical play, needles, cuckolding, sph.
• If you consider “crossdressing”, feminisation or the likes humiliating or degrading, I’m not the right person for you.
• Being insulted. I enjoy verbal humiliation and name calling (being called a slut makes me swoon) but insults against who I am or being called useless or the likes is a no-go.
• Lastly, I’m often away from my phone and won’t be able to respond immediately. I will get back to you but it may not be immediately unless of course we agreed on a time for some realtime chatting or playing. I know for many this might be a dealbreaker, so I want to be clear about this in advance. Obviously this goes both ways.

If we happen to live nearish each other, I’d be open to meet irl too but it’s not a priority.

Please put some minimal effort into your message when reaching out. Tell me something in my post that caught your eye or perhaps a fun fact about yourself. Something to start a conversation. Anything that's just a "hi" or "looking for a mistress" will be ignored.

Looking forward to getting to know you!