Hello!
I'm 33F lesbian submissive looking for a mature, understanding domme. I'm looking for something a bit particular. Let's get to know each other. I can't submit to you if I don't know and trust you. Please don't message me with tasks and honorifics out the gate.
Now, as I mentioned, I'm 33 and I'm a late in life gay girl. I came out last year and have really enjoyed rediscovering myself and delving into kink. First and foremost, I am a mom. I need a domme that can respect and understand that being a mother will always be my first priority. I like to pride myself on my self growth and willingness to learn and grow. You should too! Open and honest conversations, vulnerability (both ways), and enthusiastic consent are a must. I see a queer, kink friendly therapist weekly and I am always working to better myself.
I am a nerd at heart but not the gaming type. I'm highly neurodivergent so my interests tend to jump around but I am always down for some podcasts, my latest audiobook, a documentary, or getting out in the sun, (I'm happy in the desert or at the beach) but I can also be a total homebody at times. I have a huge passion for the medical field and will be going to nursing school in the future. I would really love to explore the idea of a longer term dynamic and meeting irl is a high priority if we connect and trust each other.
About you: You're a confident, independent woman who has experience with being a domme. You enjoy helping a softer/newer submissive explore her submission and kinks. You enjoy the psychological aspects and the feel of the power exchange. You enjoy a bit of micromanaging. I would love to eventually have tasks, rewards and punishments. I want to feel you in my daily life. (I'm a consistent good morning and good night text kinda girl) You want a connection before kink. You are understanding of medical/mental health concerns. (This is extremely important and a necessity)
About me: I'm 5'5 and about 120lbs with shoulder length brownish hair and an undercut. If I had to describe myself I'm quite casual. Flare jeans and t shirt or hoodie is my go to. I genuinely enjoy giving my submission once I feel safe enough to do so. I need to have a connection and established trust in order to be fully submissive. I enjoy praise, d/s dynamic, power exchange, teasing, orgasm play, and sensation play to name a few. I would love to connect with someone closer enough to meet up when we are both comfy.
Please send me a message with your age, location, and please tell me what caught your eye in my post. Also, bonus points and priority response for those who tell me their eye color so I know you read this far.
Talk soon 😘
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