I am not looking for online only subs.
Note: I'm chronically ill and this will impact our relationship. If I think we're a good fit I will let you know what this can entail so you can make a fully informed decision!

hi, I'm dot! I'm an experienced domme who recently found myself missing a good boy to play with, and while I usually find my subs in IRL spaces, I thought I'd give reddit a try.

about me
I'm all kinds of nerdy, mostly video games but also things like MtG, twitch, anime, and D&D, and would prefer someone who is as well to keep vanilla conversation fun.
I'm small, both in height and size, and my friends have described me as a "tomboy goth gf", both in personality and style. Willing to share pictures!

ideal pet
age 20–45, no under 20
Some experience with BDSM, or being motivated and have done extensive research on your own
Looks don't really matter as long as you're well groomed and take care of your body, but I do have a soft spot for big guys and alt boys
I have no preference for genitals
Not too bratty (a little bit of spice is fine)

the spicy stuff
I'm a very versatile domme when it comes to kinks and fetishes, and I've discovered I'm a bit of a "kink sponge" and love trying new things within femdom. If you have a unique/uncommon kink I'd love to hear about it!

Some things I do like:
Power exchange, teasing and denial, pleasure subs, ruined orgasms, anal, feet, body worship, petplay, humiliation, dub-con, mindbreak and hypnosis, bondage, chastity, and various sadistic things like impact play, CBT, and spanking

Hard limits are scat, roman, raceplay, extreme stretching, and not wanting aftercare

what I'm looking for
I'm looking for a play partner/sub for longer term in person play. I am not looking for a "full time sub" that will require daily communication or online only. I do currently have a sub and engage in play with others both IRL and online, don't write me if this is not okay.

I'm looking for someone who has at least some aligning kinks, willing to meet in person, and understands my limitations.

will you be mine?
If you've read this far and feel like we are a good fit, please send me a message with some info about you (include your age and location) and tell me about a game (or media) that you've recently really enjoyed. Messages without this will be ignored.

Any questions can be taken here in the post.

Looking forward to hearing from you pet 💕
love, dot