Hi there!

I'm here looking to meet a woman and chat about life, hopes, dreams, and hopefully find my person in the process.

Someone emotionally available and willing to meet regularly in person is preferable. Ideally somebody local or reasonably close to the Portland, Oregon area within about 2-4 hours driving distance.

About Me

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood area. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, short brown hair and facial hair, am broad shouldered and on the chubby side physically (for now).

I am honest, loyal, dutiful, kind, affectionate, and aim to please. I am, of course, nowhere near perfect. But I have a longing to grow and hope I can do so with someone special. I enjoy feeling and being made to feel submissive in and out of the bedroom and I deeply wish to be the outlet and conduit for someone else's needs and desires.

I regularly go to therapy and am continually working on being emotionally self aware and intelligent. My primary love languages are physical touch/words of affirmation and my attachment style is Anxious/Preoccupied. If you have questions or concerns about either of these or just have questions let me know.

I'm a mega nerd but I'd like to think I carry it well. My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), tinkering (fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices,) movies/TV (mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi, also serious drama,) going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

Who I am seeking

I am seeking someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises. They are strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. Someone kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and titillate. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

Ideally I'd want a partner who is interested in Gentle Femdom (GFD) Or Mommy Dom. If you're new and interested in exploring your dominant side I may be a good fit for you! Having similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies and interests is a plus! (Nerdy Girls to the front!!!) And of course I'm always open to learning about new activities that we can share.

To be clear, ultimately I am looking for a relationship where equal partnership outside of kink is important to both of us. I would prefer to start with conversation and have a couple dates. If there's a spark we can and figure out how a dynamic would work for the both of us from there.

NSFW Stuff

If you're interested in knowing my kinks and limits I can provide a list of them to you by request - My likes and limits fall within what most people would consider Gentle Femdom/Mommy Dom territory. If you'd like to know specifics please feel free to ask!

Thanks for reading! If you have any questions please let me know! Have a great day!