Please fit the criteria before responding As you can see, I'm setting the bar quite low. 💖Age 29-40

💖Living in Netherlands, with EU citizenship OR living in an area bordering Netherlands with the willingness to travel to Netherlands regularly, with EU citizenship

💖You're open to intimacy and romance, and you're over your ex

💖 You've a strong preference for monogamy

💖 You've relationship experience and learned from such experiences

💖 You're not a bratty sub

💖 You're hung with a fondness for BBW🍆

💖You've the ability to grow a mustache (I've a fetish for them)

💖 You're fine with dating someone who smokes pot without tobacco

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I have been seeking romance on-and-off for a good while now, and recently decided to give it another go.

I am rather dominant, but I am also affectionate, enjoy giving praise, and I like taking my partner into consideration. I am not afraid to be emotionally vulnerable, I am not afraid of love, I am not afraid to say that I have had a lot of sexual experiences/a good few long-term relationships, and decided that hooking up isn't nearly as satisfying as the comforts of close connection. I am empathetic, supportive, and though I am dominant, I believe collaboration and team work are important factors in a relationship. I seek an emotionally available submissive sweetheart who enjoys giving to a self-assured woman, sexually and non-sexually, with the goal of romance. Something healthy, chill, and fun. For this reason, you must be living in Netherlands or bordering Netherlands and hold a EU passport You must prefer large women/be a fat admirer for I am voluptuous and that will not change.

About me, a BBW:

I am 5ft short, with large breasts and a round, fat belly. I am a dual citizen of America and Ireland, having lived 10 years in the EU thus far. I have been living in Netherlands for 1 year thus far, still trying to get on my feet here. Now that I finally have access to affordable higher education ::shakes fist at America::, I am studying social science with the hope of becoming a case manager in a social work setting. A few of my hobbies include playing Nintendo, gardening, darts, learning Dutch, and sightseeing within Netherlands. I enjoy weekend adventures, camping, bonfires, and watching meteor showers. I've a 15 years old small dog who is my BFF. I enjoy fostering animals and whenever I see an animal in need, I always make the time to assist.

My look is a bit alternative; I tend to wear cheap, black clothes from thrift stores. I have some tattoos/piercings(tongue/nose) and I've colourful hair. I rarely wear makeup, I don't feel insecure wearing shorts if I haven't shaved, I grow my armpit hair out. I'm a goth at heart and don't walk around with a constant smile on my face. :-p

The sexy stuff:

I have a high sex drive and I enjoy spontaneous sex, whether it be in nature, road head, a sensual shower session, having my ass worshiped as I prepare dinner, etc. I like dirty talk and I like to do subtle naughty things such as groping quickly and discretely in a public setting and/or slapping a sub's booty playfully. It really turns me on when a man gets off to the pleasure he gives. To watch his eyes light up as he folds me like origami, having me cum on his cock over and over again. It brings me great joy to have my way with a man's ass in the forms of anal training, rimming, and sticking fingers inside. I would like to become more experienced in pegging(big time fantasy) and tying. It is fun to smother with my fat, whether that be between my thick thighs or between my large breasts. I like to gently put my hands on a man's neck and tease him with some name calling as I ride him. Height contrast and a mustache are my ultimate weaknesses, physically. 🥵

What to include in your first message, if you want a response
💖Age province you live in

💖How long have you been single? Are you looking for just sex or something more?

💖Do you have a preference for BBW(fat women)/are you a fat admirer(if the answer is no, don't message me)

💖A bit about yourself. If you try turning the conversation sexual quickly or you go on about fetishes in great detail, but fail to discuss other aspects of yourself with such enthusiasm, I probably won't respond.

Addressing the most commonly asked icebreaker question I've received: For the record, it's probably best not to ask an immigrant why they left their home country or the last country they've lived, as tends not to be a light topic. People don't usually leave all they know and leave nearly all possessions behind just for fun. 😅 Save it for when you know someone well or let them open up about it with time