Hey! I'm a 21 NB / M (I'm genderqueer, he/they) switch in the Durham / Newcastle area looking to sub to a woman / NB person aged 18-26. I’m looking for someone to establish a casual / FwB bedroom dynamic and to serve your needs and desires. If we really get on, i”m open to it becoming long term, but absolutely no guarantees. I’d rather not do one-night stands though, I require more trust than that in order to submit to someone. I’m the sort of person who needs to get a drink with you first, build a connection, and discuss what we’re both after before doing anything sexual. Flirting, aftercare, and clear communication are very important to me.

A little bit about me: I'm a confident person, and I'd like to say I'm easy to talk to. I've been described as a good listener and communicator, and I often take the initiative in my everyday life. Outside of kink, I’m a student and I'm interested in music, both playing and listening to it, reading, and enjoy photography. 

Physically, I'm slim, 5' 11", and have short, blond hair (a classic Twink, really). I want to exchange photos before we meet, but I’ll need to trust you first!

Kink-wise, I'm interested in gentle domination, orgasm control, joi, edging, being used as a toy to get others off, bondage, sensory deprivation, worship, teasing, but generally just giving up control to someone I trust, and truly serving the desires of those I submit to. Ideally I'm looking for someone with a more gentle, but firm domination style to play with, and to be clear I’m not after a kink dispenser - I want to serve your desires, I’ve just put mine above to help you decide if we’re compatible. 

I’ve been told I give good cunninlingus, but I’m always willing to do more practice if that’s something you’d like to do… I’m fairly new to the kink world, so please bear that in mind - I’m very open minded and willing to try a lot, as long as you communicate it with me clearly. 

Hard limits: Blood, scat, watersports, feet, beastiality, vomit

Soft limits: Pain, rough play, CNC, Humiliation / Degradation

I hope this has caught your interest, and if you've read this far title your PM with your favourite hot drink! I look forward to hearing from you