Strictly long term and strictly in person, anywhere in the UK inc. NI.

It's been a while since I last posted and I do get a number of good chats and fun flings from these posts but I am definitely looking for something long term rather than a dynamic that lasts a few months.

My physical appearance

I'm 6’1, white, skin, with thick brown hair, usually clean shaven with a bit of stubble.

A picture speaks a thousand words and I'm happy to share a selfie and body pic pretty much from the get go.

Who am I as a person?

As you can probably guess from the post, sexually speaking I am a sub but you wouldn't guess that if you knew my vanilla self. I do keep fit and enjoy walking. I walk over 80 miles a month and am trying to get back into the gym. I am also learning to ski.. Well I had one lesson on the weekend.

I enjoy reading, currently reading about Jungian psychology and the archetypes of personality, and my main interests are around psychology, philosophy, politics, and history. I know politics is important for some and I describe myself as a centrist, leaning more towards the right.

I'm also a PIV virgin so please DNC if that is a dealbreaker for you.

I d been exploring kink for just under 2 years.

What I'm looking for

Someone who is happy to verify.

All of my experiences as a submissive has been online and I really want an experience IRL. I also am only looking for a domme who will also be my girlfriend.

With that said, I'm very much the kind of person that keeps kink in the bedroom and wouldn't be open to sharing it with others unless we are both happy with it.

I'm looking for someone who is definitely on the gentle side and obviously practices safe, sane, and consensual kink. With that said, ideally you will not shy away from exploring stronger emotions and making me feel very bad. Don't worry, I'm comfortable with this and it's one of my favorite things. If you are able to make me cry, I may just fall in love.

I'm definitely a romantic and attracted more towards the personality that comes with a body. For this reason I can find myself finding a variety of body types attractive.

What I'm into (and not so much)

Well there's me putting myself in a vulnerable position on my main but I like all the classics like orgasm control to degradation. Affectionate humiliation makes me weak and I guess I'm just a people pleaser. My ideal dynamic is full submission and myself being a very obedient and trained sub.

I want to spoil my princess, learn how to massage, learn how to pleasure, cook for you, and restrain from sexual pleasure for you. In the past I have written erotica for my domme and I would be open to recording audios if that pleased her.

I'm more into the emotional side of femdom but there are of course physical things I would like to try. My hard limits are basically anything that would or could cause permanent bodily damage, blood, scat. I have done CBT before and didn't like it but could see myself doing soft CBT on occasions.

Also, there is so much hot air on Reddit for both sexes. I do want to add that I have seen 3 people off of Reddit to hopefully provide some evidence that I am serious and not just fantasizing about being dommed. I am also posting on my decade old main account.