Hey there! I'm Charlie. I'm looking for a Domme, preferably long-term, open to short.

I also have a Fetlife account: charlie_k, come say hi!

About Me

Check my picture on my profile to see what I kinda look like - more SFW pictures on my FetLife; but I take bad pictures so take them with a grain of salt.

I’m a simple guy; I’m not interested in having the nicest car on the block or building up some kind of enormous reputation. All I want in my life is to enjoy myself and try to help others feel better as well. I work in local government and have a background in psychology. Related to this, I’m pretty left-wing as I don’t support politics that are in favor of human suffering.

I'm an introvert. I like a small party with friends and like-minded folks every now and then, but most of all prefer spending quality time with someone one-on-one, especially when that someone is my romantic partner.

I have a ton of things I enjoy doing. I'm a couch potato that's into video games, board games, you name it; but I also have a penchant for adrenaline and nature in that I love hikes, rollercoasters and the occasional adventure, a bit of backpacking, you name it!

Then a little about kinks and sexual things
Aside from my theory that, to me, kink is an amplification of my love languages, my subbing style can be described through 2 main categories. A short disclaimer here however, as I do have limited experience, but experience nonetheless.

• Worship: I get pleasure from giving pleasure; I want to do everything in my power to serve and make my Domme feel good. Taking care of her needs as much as I can, both sexual & non-sexual is something I would be so intensely happy about. My desire is to make her feel as if she's in heaven, that she is at her utmost comfort for as long as she wants.
• Ownership: Ultimately, I want to become the property of my Domme. This can be through either kinky or non-kinky things; and both sexual and non-sexual. At some point, I want to feel that I'm utterly and completely hers, devoted to her and her alone. Submitting my mind, my body, and my soul for her to do with, make use of, and cherish as she sees fit - that's the dream.
• Unless they're limits I'm very much into or at the very least curious about a lot of kinks within Femdom, just ask!

As for my limits

Here's a brief rundown of the big ones.

Soft Limits (in other words, open for discussion):

• Humiliation
• Degradation

Hard Limits:

• I'm monogamous and straight, I don't do poly/cuckold/forced bi/open relationships. On either side. No exceptions. I'm open to more casual things but prefer more emotional intimacy to go along with everything. I don't share and I don't want to be shared.
• No scat, vomit, blood, piss
• No Extreme torture (intense pain that can cause lasting damage and whatnot)
• Public humiliation / Public Exhibitionism (I don't like bothering other people with my kinks when they haven't consented to this. Doing things in secret in a public place is a different story!)
• Body shaming / Bigotry

Now about who I'm looking for:
Someone who:

• is 22–37 years old
• doesn't smoke tobacco
• is monogamous.
• doesn't have kids & doesn't want kids
• is not an anti-vaxxer
• is a full domme (there's not a dominant bone in my body so taking charge is not something I'm comfortable doing - also outside of the bedroom)
• Is into similar hobbies as me (think mainly nerdy things, and a bit of interest in the occasional adventure)
• Matches a bit kink-wise (I'm very flexible, but I think a bit of overlap is probably best!)
• Can enjoy the simple things in life

Send me a message if you feel like you want to get to know me a bit better There's a lot I haven't talked about yet!

P.S: If you speak Dutch, feel free to message me in Dutch!

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
87% Slave
84% Rope bunny
82% Experimentalist
81% Pet
61% Masochist
47% Vanilla
39% Degradee
23% Primal (Prey)
18% Exhibitionist
16% Voyeur
7% Brat
0% Age player
0% Boy/Girl
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch