About me:

Cis female, late 30s. I’m overweight/bbw and married, with kids. I work full time. Because of those, my time is somewhat limited, but I’ll try my best to be available as much as possible. I’m looking for something exclusively online, through Telegram. If any of this is a dealbreaker for you, that’s absolutely ok! But you’re not the person I’m looking for.

Who I am looking for:

I’m looking for a submissive. Any gender is welcome, but for some reason I tend to prefer that men be 30 . For women, 20 is ok. No upper limit for either. While I tend to prefer someone who is roughly HWP, appearances aren’t as important as personality.

What I really need from a sub is open, honest, bordering on excessive, communication. Need something? Don’t like something? TELL ME! If it’s not a hard limit, I may tell you to do it anyway, but I need to know how you feel.

I’d prefer that you’re relatively new to bdsm, or at least to actively exploring the sub side. I love introducing people to new things and new experiences, especially things that make them a bit uncomfortable. While I can certainly do that with someone with experience, there are fewer options.

I love someone with a laundry list of soft limits I can play with. Shy and sexually conservative subs wanting help breaking out of their shells to the front of the line!

While I do have “mommy” tendencies, I’m NOT looking for age regression. You may be nervous. You may be broken. You may need a lot of nurturing and support. But you’re still an adult.

Our relationship:

I have no intention of changing my relationship status, but I’m still looking for something long term. I want both sides of a relationship with you. I want to hear about your day, your problems, your hopes and dreams. I want to see your new haircut, the outfit you’re wearing to work, and the new meme you found.

I also want to manipulate and control you for my pleasure, and yours. Specific kinks aren’t as important, for me. I can work with what you do and don’t like. I get off on control, making you uncomfortable, exposing you to new things, pushing your limits. I want to see how far you’re willing to go to please me.

I promise to start slowly, earn your trust, and support you with every step. Aftercare and reflecting on what we’ve done is a must. I’ll need pictures eventually, but I’m happy to wait a while.

Message me on Reddit chat with a basic introduction and tell me which part of this post caught your attention the most. Do not message me using titles.

Note: I’ve posted a few times in the past and received too many messages to respond to them all. If you’ve messaged in the past, it’s absolutely ok to try again!