Hi there. Hope you're having a lovely day and thank you for taking the time to read this - I'm never very good at writing out introductions. First, I'd like to say that I'm chubby/BBW/fat/whatever interchange-able word you want to use. I want to say this first as I know for some this isn't something you look for, and for others it is. Everyone has their preferences and that is okay. I just like to save myself some insecurities and anxious-ness by being honest about it.

I apologise this is also going to be long, I'm rambly!

In the last six or so months I've been discovering I'm more Domme than I thought and have had the chance to explore some online ever so often but I would like to explore this further with someone. I am a switch so if you are too that is amazing, it's also okay if you're not. Ultimately I'm looking for a deep, meaningful connection. I'm not a kink dispenser. I do not want someone who is looking to just get off. I don't expect some long term amazing relationship but I do like to talk and not just about kink. I want us to get to know each other, to be friends along side anything else. Supportive and kinky.

Some basics about me I'm overall a huge nerd - gamer, reader, TTRPGS, boardgames, roleplaying/writing and lots of crafting. I enjoy anything nerdy honestly and will happily chat about it all. I can be very weird/silly at times. Physically as I said I'm BBW, 5"7-ish, blue eyes with pink hair right now.

In terms of kinks (finally!) I'm definitely more of a soft Domme. I enjoy edging, orgasm control, toy play, chastity, overstim, a little petplay. I love getting to hear your moans and watching you cum for me. I do enjoy some feminisation - needy femboy puppys vibes may be one of my biggest Domme weaknesses but then so is seeing a big handsome man submit to me.... Humiliation is something I could include but overall I love praise and this goes both ways. As I said I am a switch too so sometimes power play can be included if that is also your thing. As much as I'm Mommy I'm often a feral little dumb puppy too sooo. I also enjoy pleasing as much as I enjoy being pleased. I enjoy giving too.... and denial..

I'd prefer someone closer in age - maybe up to ten years either side. UK is preferable but not a must. Looks wise everyone is welcome. I do prefer talking over discord inevitably as it is much easier. If you are going to reach out please make an effort with your message, low effort messages will be ignored. I'm worth the time to tell me about yourself - not only that you are worth the time.

Thank you for reading all of that! If I'm not for you then I wish you luck on your search <3