Hello my lovely dommes-of-reddit,

I am looking for something long term if possible, something that we both look forward to waking up to in the morning. This doesn't need to be romantic, but I would also not cut that out of the possibility; let's just see where it goes. I have a pretty free next month or so and I think it would be exciting to get back into the game, as it were.

Here's a little about me: I'm 20, AMAB, and genderfluid. I generally present masc IRL (not out for safety reasons) but I love being fem just as much. I suppose I'm like a femboy, but gender labels are confusing to me so just know that I like feeling cute and girly sometimes, and cute and manly other times. I am pretty thin and relatively fit, have long curly hair and pale skin. I have a pretty androgynous face, but that probably means more to me than it does to you haha.

I am a massive nerd and love pretty much any broad category of nerdiness. Videogames, fantasy, books, language, math, and more. I'm also an engineering student so if you like engineering we can talk a little shop too. Other hobbies include basketball and watching really dumb crap that makes me giggle. Over the past year or so I have found just talking to people to be a lot more interesting, so no need to match on the hobbies too much. Honestly I think personality is way more important for compatibility, so if we can make each other laugh I will be so on board.

What I'm looking for: 18-32ish, preferably fem but I'm bi so it's not a hard limit. I'm not super picky physically but I find it hard to be attracted to someone overweight. I don't mean a little bit chunky, or curvy, I mean genuinely big. This isn't anything personal, just a preference of mine. Outside of that, I hope that you're funny, interesting, and like being a little doting. I like being told I'm cute hehe. Online is fine for me, but if you're local I would love to meet up at some point after developing a relationship.

On the kink side of things, I don't want to be too specific here. The specifics aren't as important, just realize I like gentle domination and service submission, neither of which are strictly necessary. I genuinely believe that specific kinks do not make or break relationships, but obviously I am hoping to find a domme here so that's the minimum requirement. I'm also a bit switchy but lean heavy sub, I'm more of a service top if I dom at all. I find that I am only really interested in a kink with a partner if they are into it, so I am not planning on making any one of my kinks a requirement for you: let's both have fun with it! I am pretty open minded and like to try new stuff. Limits are the more extreme stuff, any toilet play, blood, sissy humiliation, etc.

I hope this post hasn't been too long. I find that writing these things condenses far more than I would like, but alas this is where we find ourselves. I would love to speak more, though, so send an interesting message and we can chat! If you're into any of my interests listed then yeah we'll have a lot to talk about at the beginning so yay. You don't need to send pictures immediately, but I am willing to verify early on and I hope you will once you're comfortable. Really want to find someone I can trust and just enjoy the company of, so don't just be looking for mindless kink interaction. I would love deeper conversations about ourselves and how we feel so be open to real human connection. Feel free to include kink stuff in your first message, but I will not be engaging in kink play until we build a connection. We can discuss specifics of dynamic and all that personally, so for now I'm looking forward to hearing from you! Please respond with your age, general location, and any necessary information you might want to share about yourself/possible dynamic.

Thank you for reading!