Hey! Thanks for reading my post, so like you (I hope) I'm seeking a sort of role reversal relationship, one where I feel comfortable to express myself and where you feel comfortable in the more dominant role.

I think my previous ads might have been too long long so have tried to condense it a bit.

About me vanilla

• Currently I'm living in Edinburgh but am planning to move back to England (I'm English) with a plan to either study from August or find a new job in London or the south as I am not too happy in mine. However I am a little flexible as I don't have any commitments that tie me to one place.
• Personality wise I'd say I was a peaceful, kind person who likes to make people laugh. I'm generous (everyone uses my subscriptions to watch stuff), curious about a lot and independent. However I can get grumpy when hungry and if over socialised I tend to get tired and need to retreat.
• Physically wise I'm 5'6 (168cm) and fairly slim, here is a semi NSFW pic of me https://imgur.com/a/tw5vfTm, I'm happy to share more once we get to know each other.
• Some of my interests include: plants (will send you pictures of plants so be warned), films, sport, art, playing music, games (board and video), hiking and cycling. Also I enjoy exploring in general but rarely go on far trips on my own so if you'd be open to that too that would be great.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for an online thing or something purely physical as I also want a partner to do things with outside the bedroom, so ideally you're in the UK or Europe and after the same thing. And unless it wasn't clear I would like a fairly normal relationship not counting the kink part.

• Age wise my limits are 24-38, the closer to my age the better but a bit flexible on this.
• I'm attracted to a range physically but prefer people not way shorter or taller than me (as hot as that can be). Being 5'6 though this shouldn't be much of a problem.
• Personality is what attracts me most so confident, kind and intelligent women who are good at teasing attract me the most. (Obviously dominant too)
• I also enjoy a bit or role reversal things like sitting on your lap or being called cute so if you're into that it's a bonus too.
• I'm pretty left wing when it comes to politics as well so if you're very right wing it won't work out well sorry.

My Non-vanilla part

I'm more into the softer gentler side of BDSM (mostly) so don't enjoy being shouted at and beaten much (although enjoy a good spanking). Here are my main kinks:

• Bondage, blindfolds, gags, collars, etc
• Spanking/impact play
• Orgasm control/chastity
• Edging/tease and denial
• Pegging and anal play
• A bit of humiliation
• Not sure if it counts as kinks but the role reversal stuff like putting a possessive arm around my waist in public

Curious about some others and pretty open minded so feel free to ask me. I'm not too into vanilla sex where I have to top and generally only feel comfortable doing that after getting comfortable with the person.

My limits are:

• Scat/diapers
• Age play
• Blood

Thanks for reading, I think that covers most of it, if you are interested feel free to message me! And good luck in your searches :)