Hey all! Trying this again now that I’ve gotten a little clarity around what I’m looking for, so some of what you read here probably sounds familiar but I think there are some important updates 😊 I am searching for a domme who is ideally local to me. You don’t have to be down the street, I don’t have a need to transition to immediate in person dynamic but I would like to work there. Previously I thought what I was looking for is a gentle domme. The reality is that I am looking for someone who is caring but ultimately firm and direct. Whether that is “gentle” is probably subjective. SFW: I have a good job and stability in my personal life, I enjoy hiking and golfing, taking my dog for runs and enjoying the outdoors with him. Being in the Carolinas, breweries are pretty popular as well and you can find me at one of them. I watch sports (mainly hockey and football) but I will watch most competitive sports 🤣. I also enjoy video games but more infrequently - games like fallout are my jam. NSFW: I am still an inexperienced submissive, so please keep that in mind. I’m going to be looking for a domme interested in experimenting some with me and being patient as I expand my knowledge. Top things I enjoy are joi/edging/ruined orgasms. Light impact play, some humiliation are areas I want to explore, and I’ve recently purchased some limited toys (cock rings, nipple clamps and a penis pump on the way) but I am open to exploring others with the right person. Limits are something I would be happy to expand on but feminization/sissy is not something I’m interested in, along with permanent chastity, public play, findom.

I like to consider myself as flexible so if you don’t feel like you check all the boxes here that’s okay, please reach out. I will be up front and won’t waste your time if we truly aren’t compatible 😊

If you’ve made it this far, generally looking for a single woman between 20 and 40, but I’m happy to discuss if you’re not quite in those parameters. Look forward to chatting!